thansk it just seems to be a recurring cylcle
another example... since ive moved i have been back for almost all of their bdays. (about 7 people in all) um last year... only two of them came down. the reason citing was bc they were scared (my bday was two weeks afer 09/11). ok.. i was sympathetic to that.. but only 3 of them have visited me since i have moved! and of that 3, only one has actually made an effort to repeat the visists. i cant count how many times ive been back to boston since i moved!
and they get pissed off or mad when i dont go back to boston! i told them in May.. THIS IS IT! i am not running bakc all the time for every event. I moved, i dont live around the corner.
