I think this thread has been really respectful and honest. And I'm not going to complain about all the female fans! But just because a guy goes there with another guy doesn't mean he's gay (not that there's anything wrong with that!). Think about how different we all are, all the variations...surely it's possible for a guy just to be open and willing to get past the social stigmatas, and still be straight. I wonder if I ever would've kissed my girlfriends if it weren't "cool" and acceptable to do so. I hope so. But, I realize this is an easier thing for girls to accept and encourage than guys. Still, loved your posts, B2B!