Enjoy yourself! anytime i've dated more than one person, or even just met 2 new guys to chill with, i appreciate them so much more when there is someone else there to balance out how you feel. this goes for all relationships... personally, i think you are just letting yourself up for dissapointment if you put ALL your energy into someone new, because you make them shine more than they deserve to. you romanticize this person that could be shit. meanwhile... now that you've got 2 of them, it's not overwhelming in any situation, all really about fun, and if one relationship gets serious, it's because it really was meant to, not just a product of chance. have fun mel-o-d!! spoil them and let them spoil you . ------------------ "I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it." -voltaire "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." -anais nin