gimmletgirl

Cuba Gooding Jr.'s character was a real person. He received a medal and everything like in the movie....that's why they singled him out but didn't really bring him into the main storyline...had to keep it real... I had a unique experience with that movie...I am visiting my family in Okinawa, Japan. I saw it in a local movie theater where my father and I were the only Americans (caucasian) in the theater. I felt very weird at first....but when the whole attack sequence played, I cried and when I looked over at the other aisles, the Okinawans were crying also. That made it even more moving to me. Okinawa was invaded by Japan so the Okinawans don't really like the Japanese and don't consider themselves Japanese even though Okinawa is a prefectorate of Japan. There's a interesting history over here.

38- DD...I wish they were smaller...anybody want some?!?!? I have plenty to spare.

...And I think all men should be required to read and memorize it!!! If only all men thought like legendary does, the world would be a better place...okay maybe not the world but sex would be better. Guys who read this TAKE SOME NOTES!!! He's got it right...not that I am a selfish partner myself

I guess I'm in a posting mood I have done the casual sex thing and I don't think it is as gratifying as intimate sex with someone you care about. But I have had some good and bad casual sex, too. I understand RQ's peeved state of mind about wasting her time on not so good sex. I regret the bad sex I've had...i mean who hasn't!!! Anyway I don't see anything unhealthy about casual sex, except for STD's!!! or if it becomes a habit and keeps a person from entering a monogamous relationship. Now that y'all have heard from Dr. G.G. y'all can sleep easier. :goofy:

Okay, I'm new here on this forum but I love Polly Esther's. I used to frequent and will again (when I move back) the Polly's in Houston. I have also been to the Polly's in San Antone and they are both awesome. Now I have a few things to say about this topic that might be helpful. I can only speak for myself but would like to believe that my views on guys dancing with me are not unique for a girl. When I go out to dance I am just out to have fun. NOT to hook up or find a guy who wants to have a relationship. Neither am I looking for sex. I love to dance and I think it is fantastic when a guy feels the same way about dancing...so I have to applaud all of you guys who get down on the floor and boogie. I have had guys ask me to dance and I have had guys just start dancing with me, when I am out on the floor. I don't see it as being rude that he didn't formally ask me to dance...sometimes words aren't needed. The things that WILL make me turn a guy down or move away from him, when dancing, is if he is really drunk, trying to dance "up on me" (you know groping me) or if I sense that they are trying to get me to have sex with them (I don't mean up on the floor, but a girl can tell a guy's signals, too and what they utlimately want to do). I don't like to lead a guy on so if I sense that's what they want I don't let them think I am game, I just refuse off the bat. No game playing for me. You mentioned something about eye contact and I would have to agree with zeonstar, I scan the crowd and meet people's eyes, just to see who's there, but if I am interested I will hold a gaze or make eye contact a second time. That is a very good indication that a girl is interested. Now if you want to go up to girl and dance and maybe get her number...the best advice I can give is to talk to her on and off the dance floor but don't hover...I don't know if that makes sense...if you're dancing try to start (if possible) a conversation. If off the dance floor do the same but don't hang around too long. Move on come back...that sort of thing...dance with her for a few songs...ask her if you could dance with her later and then leave. Find her again dance and talk some more...a girl does not like to be hovered over or to feel like a guy is coming on too strong, just like with guys it scares us away. Unless you are talking to a girl who is looking for sex. When you get a girls number the worst thing you could do is never call. This ticks a girl off and then she's inclined not to give out her number at all. I know I have been in a situation like that. Talked with a guy, danced with him, he asked for my number, gave it to him, he never called, makes me not want to give out my number to the next guy...you see what I mean it starts a vicious cycle...so if you don't want to make it bad for the next guy call the number or don't ask in the first place. Now for what started the whole thread in the first place...lack of confidence to ask a girl to dance. Just go up and do it. We are human just like you. There are girls who feel just like you do about going up to guys and asking them to dance. I am one of them. If you go up to a girl and she flat out turns her back and ignores you...she's a bitch and not worth your time. Move on to someone who is. I don't know what else to tell you and I hope this helps:D