fierydesire Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Why do many of us girls feel the need to do it? I mean what is the purpose? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 to try to get to the root of things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 theyre probably all virgo's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I dunno, but I wish you girls would knock it off. There was this girl over at my place last night, and I guess she thought I was her therapist or something because she went on for a couple hours about how she's so sad and depressed lately, and how she's searching for something but she doesn't know what, and blah blah blah whatthefuckever. Then she asked what I thought, and I told her she was analyzing shit too much. Not that my advice has ever helped anyone, but I told her to just relax and let go of the bullshit.Either take life as it comes or direct your life in the path that you want it to go, but don't sit there and dwell on the negative shit and just bitch and moan about it.This isn't directed at anyone on here, the thread just reminded me of last night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 29 Author Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by vicman theyre probably all virgo's I thought it was us pisces? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 your not alone, I overanalyze everything and I'm a guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by fierydesire Why do many of us girls feel the need to do it? I mean what is the purpose? ... what is the purpose of overly analyzing something?? there is no purpose... it's just when you do too much analyzing... and of course we need to analyze life and ourselves... it's the root of growing and learning... i guess it's just some people never stop analyzing and thats the problem...whatever... whats the point of this question anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by somebitch to try to get to the root of things. Basically... But unfortunately you never really get there, or stop thinking of "what if" scenarios... which is why our minds can't let go and we overanalyze... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by heretic909 Either take life as it comes or direct your life in the path that you want it to go, but don't sit there and dwell on the negative shit and just bitch and moan about it.Yeah, but what if you don't know what path you want your life to go in? And how can you know unless you have all the facts and all your options are clear? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladiva26 Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by fierydesire Why do many of us girls feel the need to do it? I mean what is the purpose? i feel that i overanalyze certain things, probably my biggest thing being a person's motives for acting/saying/doing things a certain way. if i dont have a normal line of communication or source of information, i auotmatically start thinking sh*t .... "why would he say that?" "why did she do that?" bla bla bla i guess i just like to know where a person is coming from and why as for overanalyzing school and work --- i just go with the flow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 29 Author Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by djmoonshine ... what is the purpose of overly analyzing something?? there is no purpose... it's just when you do too much analyzing... and of course we need to analyze life and ourselves... it's the root of growing and learning... i guess it's just some people never stop analyzing and thats the problem...whatever... whats the point of this question anyway? The purpose of the question is that I always find myself analyzing everything to the fullest. I wonder if guys do it as well. Cause it seems that many of us females do it way more then guys do. Just wondering why its more prevalent in females? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I guess we women feel a need to make sure everything in a certain situation is understood...I overanalyze a lot myself...sometimes too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 well im not a girl but i know i over analyze myself too much...actually now its to the point of not wanting to spin on thursday cuz i dont think im good enough Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by trancend well im not a girl but i know i over analyze myself too much...actually now its to the point of not wanting to spin on thursday cuz i dont think im good enough i have that same issue. i dont feel like im good enough alot of times...and im scared to spin in front of people because i think i suck. its amazing, cuz when im alone in my room...i drop sick sick sets!!! no one ever gets to hear it though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I was zombified tired one night watching some crap on HBOThis guy was analyzing his love for his wife over his crush on his secretary so he asked his housemaid what he should do.and what she said instilled wisdom in me..."I dont think about those things im too busy living my life."I think that means some people just think too much.Id rather be surpised and roll with the punches.I truely think utter madness comes from thinking.Not problem solving....just thinking in general.How insane would you be if you were locked in a lightless, soundless empty room for all time.Just you...and your thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by vicman theyre probably all virgo's lmao!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I find it amusing that the boys are talking about overanalyzing something they do (spinning)... whereas we're all talking about overanalyzing relationships and the like...I think that's one of the big differences between the sexes... women tend to be relationship-oriented (no, not just romantic relationships) whereas men are action-oriented... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Haha, and while I was typing that, Gothzane posts something that is the exact opposite of what I just wrote... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by gothzane I truely think utter madness comes from thinking.Not problem solving....just thinking in general.How insane would you be if you were locked in a lightless, soundless empty room for all time.Just you...and your thoughts. Actually I know just how that feels... that's when I start writing... it doesn't really clear things up, usually just leads to a lot more questions, but it does get a lot of shit out of my head... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Originally posted by tastyt Yeah, but what if you don't know what path you want your life to go in? And how can you know unless you have all the facts and all your options are clear? Well everything around us is constantly changing, so one could be at the end of their life and still not know what they wanna do because they are still waiting for those facts and options to solidify which will never happen. If chances aren't taken or options aren't explored, then one will never gain any insight on those options and thus won't be able to make any decisions about the direction of their life. The human mind is extremely malleable and is built to progress and adapt. But there won't be anything for that person to adapt to if situations aren't confronted and options aren't explored. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Ahh a lady after my own charcoal heart.My earlier post was simply my perceptionof the minds chaotic impulse to tear apartthings which should be left alone.Just my opinion...shouldnt be taken seriouslyconsidering the fact that i talk out of my ass half the time...lolOriginally posted by tastyt Actually I know just how that feels... that's when I start writing... it doesn't really clear things up, usually just leads to a lot more questions, but it does get a lot of shit out of my head... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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