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Here's my story. I've been married for about 2.5 yrs. The marriage has had its share of good/bad moments. Well, about 1 mnth ago, we got into an arguement and wifey took off with all her things to her moms house. I tried to make things better by seeking marriage counseling, but when I attempted to approach her at her job, she almost ran me over with her car. Then she calls me and tells me she wants nothing to do with me. Also tells me to stay away from her moms house, etc. I'm like, okay. I admit that I've been going through suffering and pain because of this. Therefore, I decided to go out and distract my mind to avoid the emotional downfalls. To make matters worse, she calls me to ask me what I was doing at such and such place. I'm like what the fk?? First you tell me you don't love me and don't want to be with me and now you're trying to tell me what to do?? Her excuse is that she doesn't want to run into me. Anyhow, she calls me days later to tell me that she's going away to gather herself and clear her mind of what she really wants. I'm like...this is crap. I'm not her boyfriend, I'm the husband. You should of thought about that before you got married. She left me with rent,expenses and didn't care of all that I was going through. In the meantime, she's been out clubbing and doing god knows what. Well, recently I received another phone call from her vacation who she went with her bro and her bro's best friend telling me how she misses me and can't get me out of her mind. Here's my dillema...I really don't know what to do. I do love her, but am hurt and full of anger. I told her where was her love when I really needed it. There was no point in going to another country to gather yourself to see what you really wanted. That in my mind is pathetic and only made things worse because it just plants the seed of doubt in my head. I'm sure she's not in a room just thinking about me. I don't know if it's worth me forgiving and giving it another shot or just ending this by getting a divorce and moving on with my life. She's going back to school and I get the impression that this was all planned out from the giddey up as a last thrill before she heads that route. I also am under the impression that she takes me for granted and feels that I would be there in the end with open arms. I feel that in her life first comes her mom,bro,friends, then me. The harm has already been done and this isn't the first time she runs to her moms house when we have an arguement. I can't fall into this trap because then it will just become a habit. What to do? I would appreciate any feedback and apologize for putting this up in this section of the board, but could use some serious advice.

Here's my story. I've been married for about 2.5 yrs. The marriage has had its share of good/bad moments. Well, about 1 mnth ago, we got into an arguement and wifey took off with all her things to her moms house. I tried to make things better by seeking marriage counseling, but when I attempted to approach her at her job, she almost ran me over with her car. Then she calls me and tells me she wants nothing to do with me. Also tells me to stay away from her moms house, etc. I'm like, okay. I admit that I've been going through suffering and pain because of this. Therefore, I decided to go out and distract my mind to avoid the emotional downfalls. To make matters worse, she calls me to ask me what I was doing at such and such place. I'm like what the fk?? First you tell me you don't love me and don't want to be with me and now you're trying to tell me what to do?? Her excuse is that she doesn't want to run into me. Anyhow, she calls me days later to tell me that she's going away to gather herself and clear her mind of what she really wants. I'm like...this is crap. I'm not her boyfriend, I'm the husband. You should of thought about that before you got married. She left me with rent,expenses and didn't care of all that I was going through. In the meantime, she's been out clubbing and doing god knows what. Well, recently I received another phone call from her vacation who she went with her bro and her bro's best friend telling me how she misses me and can't get me out of her mind. Here's my dillema...I really don't know what to do. I do love her, but am hurt and full of anger. I told her where was her love when I really needed it. There was no point in going to another country to gather yourself to see what you really wanted. That in my mind is pathetic and only made things worse because it just plants the seed of doubt in my head. I'm sure she's not in a room just thinking about me. I don't know if it's worth me forgiving and giving it another shot or just ending this by getting a divorce and moving on with my life. She's going back to school and I get the impression that this was all planned out from the giddey up as a last thrill before she heads that route. I also am under the impression that she takes me for granted and feels that I would be there in the end with open arms. I feel that in her life first comes her mom,bro,friends, then me. The harm has already been done and this isn't the first time she runs to her moms house when we have an arguement. I can't fall into this trap because then it will just become a habit. What to do? I would appreciate any feedback and apologize for putting this up in this section of the board, but could use some serious advice.

that's actually funny.

Bro, i'm no wiz. i know it may sound stupid, but i'm simply trying to get some help, that's all.

I was browsing the other day a online pharmacy and ended up being directed to some online search engine. However, when i closed my browser, i noticed four internet explorer icons with titles such as sex poker, young princess, etc. These icons when clicked lead to those annoying sites. I also noticed that on my favorites list all this sex crap is on there linking to all those sites. I deleted everything to recycle bin and emptied it out. When I restarted the pc, the crap was still there. I don't know what else to do. I would greatly appreciate and help in reference to situation. Thanks.

Hello all, I have a dilema I'm dealing with. I've been seeing this girl for like 2 mnths. We are all into each other and things have been going pretty well. Last night I was supposed to see her,but her friend had a surprise baby shower in which she supposedly forgot about. I was cool with it and accepted it although admit timing was shitty. Anyhow, I haven't heard from her at all. I don't know whether to call her or wait and see what occurs. What has me all up in arms is that she's never done this before. I'm worried that maybe something bad happened to her. What should I do? Sorry for the stupid post, but simply confused.

I've recently married my girlfriend of 2yrs. We've been married for only 3mnths. I decided to do things the old fashion way by marrying before living together. One would figure that this should be the happies moment in our lives. However, all we do is argue all the time to the point where we can't stand each other. It's not all the time either. We do have our great moments, just that the arguing takes away from everything else. I do love her as she loves me, but seems like sometimes we're tearing each other apart. I've asked her for some time/space to gather my thoughts and think about all aspects of our relationship. It's not a question of love. It's all the other little things that add up. She claims that we should be mature enough to work out our problems by facing them. The thing is that I know we'll be fine for a month or so till we're at each other again. That's why I asked her for the space to reflect on what we have. Whether or not I can be with her or to move on with my life no matter what. I never thought I would find myself within these crossroads. I guess this is what happens when you jump into marriage without really knowing the person in everyway. I just wished there was a better way so we wouldn't hurt. Oh well, thanks for taking time to read my situation. I would appreciate any honest opinion/feedback.

The wave hotel on ocean ave.

This freaking sucks!! I'm at work since 8am and get out at 5pm. The only upside is the O.T pay, but regardless....I'd rather be sleeping.

I was dating this girl and all was well for a couple of months. She suddenly invited me to Florida for several days. I explained to her that I could not afford it and didn't think it was possible. She comes out and flat out tells me not to worry. Sure enough, I end up going and had a blast. Now, we're no longer together. I don't know if she's bitter about the situation, but she's charging me for the trip and stating that she needs the money. I'm like, what a minute......didn't you invite me? Secondly, it wasn't even my idea and last, I told her I didn't have the funds at the time and she was like no biggie. I've decided to just fucking pay the bitch and get it over with. It's not the money, it's the principle smokey!! What do ya think? ps. be careful when you date someone and it's good to them. That might be a problem that just won't go away when things don't work out.

Did you guys really look at her? She had body work done. Look at her in the past....no ass and all. Last night, all of the sudden, she was out there like what?? It's amazing what money can do. However, she's still looked like something you just want hit and run.

I was wondering if any of ya has had a sexual relationship with a co worker? We started as friends and all, but then one day she approached me about how she felt towards me. She admited that she wanted to see how things would work out. I ended up sleeping with her for some months, but then she wanted more. She wanted to be my wifey and I wasn't having it. Anyways, now we still talk and all, but feels odd. It feels weird because when I look at her.......I can't help the thought of giving it to her and hearing her say......Fuck me!! I start having all these flashbacks, but in the end not worth it. Has anyone of ya experienced this?

I can remember when Lotus used to be a real pain in the ass. Also, Spa at times could be difficult. Club NY, c'mon. That place is mad easy to get it. There's no need to wear a suit?? Some people do, but not necessary. I can remember Saci Fridays about a year ago when flava promotions was throwing it.....that rope was difficult. Ah!! those were the days.

Women are fragile and bleed when not taken care of....what the fuck are you talking about?? It wasn't some rough crazy shit. We were just going at it...she was on top and I thrusted up and wham!! It's as simple as that. I mean, I was surprised and at the same time scared. Especially the first time it happend. By the way, it was the punnany not the crap hole that I was poking. JEJE!! I'll tell you one thing, to see one's penis full of blood can be a scary thing. .

Yes bro. I know exactly what you're talking about. It basically means that you're breaking new ground. I've had it happen twice with my girl. I remember her saying, "ouch!!" Then jumping off me and bleeding. Take it in stride!!

I'm sorry things didn't work out between the two of you. It can be difficult and I truly understand. It's really hard to find someone that is worth ones time. I mean, if you want to just fuck, there's candidates everywhere. However, if you're looking to settle down, then that totally changes everything. I remember one of my past experiences. Man, I should of never said those dreaded words.....I LOVE YOU. When in reality, I was just lying to myself. It hit me one day and I had to be forward with her. I'm happy that we're able to talk about it today. I broke her heart and didn't mean to. I just realized that what I thought I felt, really wasn't. I've also had it done to me and know what it's like to be on both sides. Best thing you can do is not worry about it. Try hard not to get discouraged and move on. With time, you'll find that someone that will move your world like never before and you'll forget about this man like yesterday. I wish you well and don't let any fool just walk in and take your heart because in the end, it's your heart sweetie.

Around 10 times. I remember her telling me to stop. Funny thing was that after 10 minutes, we were back at it. I couldn't even walk and my nuts hurt like hell. Ouch!! However, definetly would do it again.

Shaving is a must. I prefer women who shave and are smooth. I don't like amazons and shit. Therefore, I do the same to make it easier on them and not a manhunt.

I prefer little if any makeup. I just love it when a women has that natural beauty. I hate all that cover up and shit. I can't wear nice shirts because your crap rubs off on it. Some women wear so much makeup that they should audition for the insane clown posse. LOL!!

Perhaps this has been covered in the past, but thought it would be interesting to know everyone's experiences. The biggest turn off was when I was dating this beautiful girl. I mean she was banging. Sure enough, we head out to Guernica and have an incredible night. Then I get to the apartment and we begin to get into each other. Thing is, when her gear came off, I smelled something strong. I thought it was her cat so I kept making out and themsome. However, I decided to do the finger test. I took a whiff once I bit her neck and damn!! I thought my finger was going to melt off. Her punnany smelled like cod fish oil. I told her I'm sorry, but that I wasn't feeling well. Went to the bathroom and tried to control myself from vomitting. That's the last time I ever saw her. Anyone?

Trojan super thin with nonx-9 and recepticle tip.

Guernica is def off da meter. You should check it out. The drinks are at bargain prices compare to other joints and the house music is sick. Only down side, it's mad hot downstairs and can be tight at times.

Corona w/Lime, Coors lite and Sapporo.

Just thought I'd pitch in to the topic. It's not necessarily the size that matters. It's how you use it. In my past, you'll run into the same situations with women. Some of them are tight and some are WIDE OPEN. No matter how big your cock is, that punnany will swallow the worm. It goes both ways. Solution? work on yourself and be comfortable with yourself. Stop concentrating on your size. Instead, work on your skills. Learn those spots that make her lips quench for THE DICK. Once you have that down the rest will follow. It's like a catch 21. Some love the huge cocks, but hate to deal with the pain. Some hate the small cocks, but love to ride em. Go figure!! Overall, I have to agree with the others who posted, if that's all that matters to her, dump her and find one that will appreciate you for you regardless of your size. Good luck!!