WOH!!!! HOLD ON HERE! wow. Ok, sorry, for some reason the notification went to my junk mail. Thanks for all the replies. Ok, so, she's from another city about 1hr 1/2 away. So one party with her family, one with friends from her city, one with friends from the city she moved to. The family thing I'm leaving to her mom. The other two, well, they're both at restaurants that turn to a club at around 11. (then alone, dinner on the actual birthday). I'm liking the spa thing. Jewlery....she's too picky. hmmmm, ya, think the spa would be perfect. Anything else? I need to come up with a few gifts.