To answer your question, no that does not mean he is gay. And I have to agree with everything wideskies has said. Anyways, me personally, in the past when I would do stuff with my ex like yeah lick his ass, I got turned on like that. And yeah in the beginning I hadda beg him and beg him to do it cause he also would say that "no its gay", but finally he let me do it to him and he loved it. Even though I never got around to doing it with him, I'd always tell him that I wanted to buy a dildo (or maybe even a strap on) so that I could use it on him, and yeah he was thinking about it but unfortunately we broke up. and seriously to all the people that bluntly replied "yeah he's gay", thats very ignorant and close minded. As far as the pedicures and manicures, good for him, I like a guy that takes care of himself and is not afraid of people what people think of him. -Romina