herculesmo

My girl just got put into rehab because her mom caught her doing god knows what heh.. she doesn't want to say to me. Being that I don't do drugs, I'm actually happy in a way. But I have to ask.. Does rehab actually work? What kind of things happen in there. I'm just curious, because my g/f won't talk to me about it at all. Her mom is religious and stuff so she's in a lot of shit, and I have to play it off like I don't know else her mom will feel even worse. Thanks.

Her mom caught her doin some shit.. So what happens in there? Does it work?

Silveooh, can you explain what you were sayin to me? I got the part about disapproving, and I already do, but I don't voice that I also need ideas on things we can do together that would make her and I both happy, but not necessarily go out clubbin every night. I can go MAYBE once a week, but that's a stretch. I am way too motivated to sleep a day away because I went out till 9am

Well, I'm going to give it my all, as I always do with women. I'm a hopeless romantic, and I'm always looking for 'the one' and if I don't try hard enough.. I may be sorry down the line. I just wanted to know what kind of adverse affects it has on a relationship Besides, what fun did YOU have (stacy) with people that don't party much? My girl keeps askin me to go out clubbing which is good if you want to meet somebody, but if you already know somebody... I just don't see the point Though I go sometimes just to kick it with my friends. So what kind of things are good to do in this kind of relationship on a date or whatnot? Movies have already been played out

Well, I'm a total straight-edge. Don't drink, roll, nada.. I just started goin with a girl that is a 'party girl' and I think you all know what that means. I just need some advice on whether a relationship like that works out or not, because I like the girl but some things she does just don't appeal to me.. specially when she rolls, goddamn she sees all kindsa funky shit . I guess what I'm saying is that do hardcore partiers usually mix well with on-again off-again partiers? (like me hehe). Thanks.

Where's sirdante ?

I had said previously that friday night was going to be the big night.. what a night it was. I swear, I have never heard her scream like that I'm sure I didn't do everything perfectly, but I think i did well We stayed up till about 5am going back and forth. I think I gave her some happiness.. I just hope that she doesn't forget my birthday !

I have to be the odd man out, but I wouldn't indulge.. I just think sex is something that's supposed to be shared with 2 people who love each other... though I won't look down on anybody that takes that lady up on her offer.. Just something i *personally* wouldn't do. Thats all

my g/f's birthday. I'm going to follow SirDante's guide, so please wish me luck I hope I do everything I'm supposed to.. Any last minute advice that my prove important? Anything at all! I want her to be happy, she's finally graduated from being a teenager Will be 20 tomorrow and the same age as me finally hehe. Peace! Wish me luck

Simply put, I'm not going to buy a CD because ONE song is good. This is a wakeup for artists to stop producing and creating CRAPPY music and expect people to buy their CDs. So when people start making music like PVD makes or like S&D make.. I'll buy the CD.

wow, great manual! *copies and puts into a booklet to place under bed and study later* One question.. when she comes?...........I just dont wanna do anything 'wrong'. Fill in the blank for me [This message has been edited by hercules (edited 09-25-2000).]

Somebody please help I'm totally inexperienced, and i don't know what to expect or do! I am looking for something like that movie American Pie, a reference sheet Thanks guys, please help if you know Everybody seems so knowledgable.....

anything bigger than a handful is a turn-OFF to me... I don't need that much woman.. but it depends on the body size too hehe

I've never done it. I would like to do it for my current g/f, as I've prepared quite a night for her b-day (starting with dinner, walk, massage, blah blah blah). I have no idea what to do, OR what to expect. Please help a inexperienced teen Thanks folks

Doesn't it wind up leaving harder hair after it grows back? Kinda like shaving my face....

Keep tellin yerself that

I went to limelight one time, and it's the only time I'll go (unless some good djs are playing). The night started out (when I got there was around 11:30ish) with Zombie Nation mainstream house stuff.. Stuff I've heard before. Then it slowly got worse and worse. I am not yet 21 so the girls didn't see a wristband and didn't waste their time (oh well hehe.. dont wanna hook up, just dance but whatever). Eventually i heard this salsa/mexican house music playing.. and I just stopped dancing. I was trying to get into it and I just stopped. Was dead on the floor doing nothing. I walked off in disgust and stood against the wall while my friends tried to do their groove there.. In about 5 minutes everybody was ready to leave. We left at about 3am and hit Exit and finished the night on a high note. Limelight's dance floor is really shoddy and I could hear how fucked up it was walking over it. Creeeeeak here and there.. was bad. The place itself is amazing - it's made of a church and inside with all the Jesus Disco balls it is really trippy. Unless I hear some good DJs playin there (PVD, S&D, Tsettos, etc) I don't think I'll ever venture in there again. It's a set crowd and I don't think I'll be able to fit into it.

VJ, hehe... one day I'll just have to tell my mom off hehe Will take time and I know when I graduate college she'll have like 3 or 4 chicks that would want to get hitched to me. My mom has good taste in what I like (smart and cute.. i'd explain more but i am tired), but i really gotta get to know the person first. Which is why dating is a necessity.

My AIM is: HerculesMO peace

I had so many more calls when I had a g/f.. wonder what happened But i trusted my last g/f 100%. And I'm pretty sure she trusted me

lol jdogg i was thinking the same thing I look like i got beat up or something.. they somehow find the WORST side of you and take the picture on your most horrible looking day muahahahaha

2 weeks? I must be superhuman lol I haven't had sex in hmmm.. at least 6 months But thats cuz of personal choices.. had plenty opportunities but welp.. its corny but I have to really love the girl to do it. Makes it that much better.. but to each his own Good luck in finding a signifigant other hehe

Romantic I love holding hands, talking bout nothing, that type of stuff I want one of those romances you see in movies.. that's ultimate fantasy Hope it comes true

now i gotta find a damn picture of myself ..........

VJ, hehe I'm in the same boat as you sorta I'm Pakistani (almost same as Indian hehe) and my parents are Muslims.. So that means I am not even ALLOWED to date or nothing.. Not that it's stopped me.. I've had 2 girlfriends and they were both pretty serious relationships. But the arranged marriage bit comes up in my family too. And it's damn annoying. My mom is pretty cool, she understands that I need my freedom so I can talk to other Paki girls, and my mom always tries to hook me up with girls she'd think I'd like.. to talk with So their parents know me and stuff, and they think I'm going to marry their daughters. Out of all girls I know, ALL their mothers LOVE me. Why, I dunno Not like I'm anythin special hehe But if I have a girlfriend, I can't even TELL my mother as I'd probably be kicked outta my house (no lie), so its hard to maintain any kind of relationship. Any time a girl calls the house and asks to talk to me for ANYTHING (homework, school, work, etc), my mom questions the shit outta me. So join the 'desi' club But I think I'm worse off than you are hehe. I had to buy a cell phone just for girls to leave me messages and things so my mom doesn't question the shit outta me (though 90% of the time it's for school related things.)