I never have that problem with my any of my women, you can spot those type a mile away, and if one slips by, let them go. Only a woman who does not expect anything, will get anything. She's right, a mature, independent woman, a woman with ambition and drive, who does not need a man, is BY FAR the most attractive, and it'll last a while b/c she'll def have a head on her shoulders and not be a psycho. just my 2 cents