Romeo, dear, I am sorry to tell you, but you have come onto the wrong message boards with this post. All the ladies on this board are pretty open about themselves and I wouldn't think would dare have sex with the lights off. And I am pretty sure we are all comfortble "exploring ourselves" Sit back, relax and enjoy the ride, the Sex Boards can get pretty bumpy!!! ------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.