Make sure she knows that: 1) if she wants an abortion, she should do it soon 'cause the later the abortion, the harder it is to get over, they really are little babies (reallly little but still formed) after like 5 to 6 months. My grandfather was an OB/GYN and he would not perform late 2nd or any 3rd trimester abortions because he just couldn't handle it - they sometimes cry, it's not like a mass of cells anymore. That should creep her out if she's planning abortion. 2) If she is planning to have the baby and does not want the responsibility and/or knows she's not gonna make the commitment to it, give her the #'s and locations of several adoption centers (also web sites are great cause she can peruse without feeling pressured) and make sure she knows that she can give her baby to someone who's really gonna care about it. Hope that helps! PS - if she plans to keep the baby or carry it to term, make sure she gets prenatal care (send her to www.plannedparenthood.org for more info and help if she can't afford it) because it's really important both for her health and the baby's!