opala

Hey there, I heard a song during a Gabriel and Dresden set a few days ago, and I can't get it out of my head. All I can remember from the chorus are the words 'Free will...' I think it was 'surrender my free will'...or something like that. I hope someone can help me out! Cheers.

Thanks for your warm welcome, but it's sister honey! Sister!

thanks for the invite, where's the meetup? what time?... A friend of mine asked me out to the Yankees game...

thanks guys! It's good to be back... I just got in on saturday, I'm getting settled in at my place and work etc. And I can't wait to go out! I'll keep my eyes open and hopefully I'll get a chance to meet some of you. Take care, opala

Hello everyone, I'm going to be moving ot NY for 3 months this summer (I'm from Vancouver BC) and I need people to go clubbing with! I've lived in NY before so I do have friends, but none of them are the type to go out with! So...I arrive next weekend and I'll be looking for good times all summer, so give me a shout please! Thanks, opala

Hey there, I just wanted to express to everyone in NY how terrible I feel about the disaster that occured in America on tuesday. I've spent the last year and a half in NY, it was my home too...and I want you all to know that your neighbours up north care. I'm originally from Vancouver B.C. and I just left NY on September 3rd after interning there the whole summer. I've been back at school and it really is so amazing how much the people in Vancouver (and no doubt the rest of Canada) want to help. There are 3-4 hour line ups to donate blood, a local radio station that was supposed to give away $25,000 this week decided instead to donate it to the Red Cross Relief Fund, there have been vigils and memorials everywhere and American flags are being bought out in stores all over the city and flown in respect for your nation. For those of you who are waiting to hear from someone, or have lost someone, I hope and pray for their recovery and peace. Please know that the tears you cry are tears that the rest of the world wishes you never had to shed. I love NYC, it is one of the most unique cities in the world because it posesses an amazing spirit-a spirit that is created by the amazing people that live there. What happened on Tuesday was not only and attack on America, but an attack on humanity. New York is a global city, almost every country in the world must be represented in NY. This is why I hope that you as America, with the support of the rest of the world can unite and rise above the terrorism and evil that has caused so much pain. I know that so many of you are angry, as you have every right to be, but please, spread love, not hate. We've seen enough hate in the past few days to last us until the end of time. There are terrible things that go on in this world everyday and unfortunately it has taken an event like this for us to pull together. My heart goes out to you guys, the citizens of the USA, friends, family, living and deceased. I hope that you hold onto your faith and stay strong, and let's work on making this world a safer and more loving place, where no more lives need to be taken, and no more people have to hurt. Love you all, Emily Kwok-Vancouver B.C.-Canada

Question... Are most of you ladies Asian as well? I'm Asian and am not particularily attracted to Asian men. There are some good looking Asian men, but I think the fact that I grew up in a traditional Asian(male-run) household while having a peer group of anything but-has turned me off of them. I'm just curious to know if I'm the only Asian girl that feels this way.

Where in Canada? I'm originally from Vancouver B.C>westcoast.

elmhurst...only temporarily though...till september

Hey-hey, I was at the Tunnel last night and am wonering if any of you that were there know of a dj by the name of Robert Almonte? I asked some guy that was standing in the boxed off platform that the dj was spinning in but I don't know if I heard him correctly. This guy was on maybe around 3am? When he started his set he stopped whatever was playing before and it sounded like he was going to launch into some r&b or hip hop, but then he threw in harder beats....I thought he was great! SOOOOO...if anyone can help me out with his correct name or have any info on where he's spinning again...please help me out? Thanks

Did it for the first time this weekend actually, the flow was low...there was no mess...just more lubrication.

Chemistry for sure...but I also need to feel really safe around him. I get these gut reactions as to whether or not the guy I want to sleep with is trustworty and true...so far my instinct has always been right and all 3 of them are in my life!

A lot of Durex users in da house! I'll have to give them a try...come to think of it, I have had a lifestlyes break once too and I've only used them 2-3 times. I guess the price does acount for something! Thanks for your responses

I bought a box of condoms the other day (my first box) and noticed that a 12 pack of Trojan costs almost twice as much as a 12 pack of lifestyles. WTF? Anybody with some answers? Are we that conscious of name brand condoms too? I looked at the labels to see if there was any real difference but couldn't see any...

Careful cause some of the girls that hang out at the local clubs after 2 am are prostitutes (I've had people that worked at my resort tell me this as well as our tour rep). Regardless of who you potentially hook up with, be careful!! The last thing you want to do is bring back cooties from the DR.

Do you think having sex everyday can be a bad thing? If both people can make things enjoyable and fun then I say why not! Fuck like rabbits! But you can run the risk of the sex becoming too repetitive and routine...what's your 2 cents?

My boyfriend asked me that the other day after we had had a good long fuck. We were lying there and he asked if as a girl-I get 'penis anxiety'. I was like 'what?'...he explained, whether I get very concerned about the size of a guys dick...it being too short etc. I've only been with 3 guys-the smallest wasn't that small - all 3 have been well equiped. I don't know what I would feel like with a guy with a smaller dick. I like them long...but GUYS!! If you are blessed with a big dick-don't thrust so hard and deep all the time! that's all I have to say

Hey y'all... I've been with two fairly tall men, one 6'3, the other 6'4. Both of them happen to have length inclined dicks! I'm an art student and i've drawn a few tall men as well...is it a given that a tall guy has a big dick? Maybe this is a stupid question, but I just wanted to know what everyone else's experience has been. I've never been disappointed with tall guys!

When did you girls shave for the first time? I'm trim...no guy has ever asked me to do anything...I get good head...lol...but I've been thinking about shaving, brazillian etc. Only thing is, I'm paranoid that my guy will be like,'WTF? where did that come from?' Of course I figure he would enjoy it, but I'm curious how it was that you all went about doing it. Did you just do it or did your partner suggest it?

Well said...totally agree...

true, true... but why do you think it's taboo? Way back in the day wasn't it the norm for really 'old enough to be my daddy' types would make a youngin' their wife? Not saying I endorse this kind of behavior, but when did mentality change?

PhOenix, i just wanted to know how everybody else thinks these days about a situation like that. Myself, I've only been with 2 people...I'm the type of gal who won't get in bed with a guy unless I feel that there is really good chemisrty between us, and I mean some strong shit. I've had plenty of opportunities (as I'm sure many of you have) to jump into bed with different guys, but for me, it's like 'what's the point?' I need to be stimulated mind, body and soul! I'm no prude, but I don't think I'm cut out for the casual sex scene. Not saying that there is anything wrong with it, get you jollies where you can! But personally, I need to have some sort of mental attraction as well. I think I fall into the same boat as many of you...that it has to do with reason and mentality. I brought this up cause I figure that some guys think (or used to)that if their girl slept with more than 3-4 men she's dirty-not the kinda girl you would marry. Judging from what you all said, sounds like things are chill...

Hey... Just wondering what the general consensus was on what the difference is between a respectable girl and a slut! I was recently talking to a female friend of mine who resorted to calling herself a whore (jokingly) because of the number of people that she has had sexual relations with. Repetitive I know, but guys have always been able to get away with sleeping with lots of girls without being so easily labeled. SO I want to know from guys and girls...how many is too many? Or is that a totally irrelavant question these days? Thanks

Whoa! I was in the DR 2 summers ago and had a blast! I was at Playa Dorada which is where you will be staying. There were 14 resorts in the complex at the time...completetly gated off from the public. I stayed at the Gran Ventana (nice...) for a week with 2 friends. I had an awesome time partying it up! While you are there, definately get out of the resort area. Be warned, you will be hustled...but there are some cool things to do. First off, you must go to Sosua, it's about a 20 min drive-you can hire a cab from your resort and they will take you straight to the beach. It was beautiful there...I went scuba diving and got pics underwater! It's touristy, but fun. Try and hook up with workers from your resort, we did and they were mad cool. They took us on our first night to a club in Sosua called the High Carribean, and it was alright...better than the clubs in the resort. If there are girls going with you, be careful, the locals tend to grab women and claim their property for the evening. Stay away from drinking the water (duh) and I wouldn't suggest eating too much food outside your resort. My resort had great food, and there is an open air shopping mall in Playa Dorada where you will find Pizza Hut etc. I hooked up with a guy from NYC when I was there who is half Dominican and he came out with me and my friends and translated for us. Puerto Plata has some cool areas too, but you need to hire a cab to get there and the drivers will usually try and push a 'tour guide' on you. These guys will take you around to shops etc...they get commission for bringing tourists. They can be pesky, but they are safe. DO NOT RIDE ON THE MOTORCYLES...they are all over the place. Dangerous as hell. As far as I know, there aren't any driving restrictions there so there are crazy drivers- be careful. Most of the clubs in the resort areas open around 11:30-go around 12...12:30-make use of your unlimited drinks (all inclusive I assume?) until the bar shuts down at your resort cause drinks aren't free at clubs. Walk in pairs or groups. Playa Dorada is a gated complex but you can never be too safe. One last thing, if you are supposed to meet with a bus or van at the airport, you go to them...there are usually people with signs etc, but there are these guys that will come and try to take your luggage as soon as you exit the airport. They will show you passes and say that they are legit. They will reach for your bags and say that they are with your resort. THEY AREN'T! They won't steal your shit, they will in fact bring your luggage to your bus-van-whatever and then ask for a tip. Tell them flat out NO from the get go. You need to be assertive and at times down right rude in order to be left alone there. Otherwise have fun! I had a blast...if you need for info or have more questions feel free to PM me

I totally agree ooana-if you go looking and expecting...it will not come. I date people from clubs based on a good vibe that I might get off them that particular evening. If I can dig the way we dance and chat then cool-I'm down with hanging out again. But that's just it-I'm down with hanging out. I've had nothing but excellent experiences this way, every single guy that I've hooked up with outside a club has been a pleasure. If anything more has ever happened (and it has...) then all the better! A lot of people go out to clubs to pick up, I go to have a good time dancing with my friends. It's a different vibe altogether that you emit when you aren't looking to get with anyone. You will attract like minded people that way, and all the more pleasant experience. Every single guy I've ever gone out with from a club has the same attitude. So relax a bit, change your focus. Go out to have a good time with the people you are with, enjoy yourself in the company of those you came with and you'll be surprised at how many girls will find that attractive. I'm not saying that you're deperate or anything, but a girl with any brain at all can sniff out a guys intentions from a mile away...even through all the cologne