Dont have an affair y0h... I mean, look, I know that a lot of the things i post on the boardz are joking around.. but in all seriousness, if your relationship is lacking, then speak to your partner.. Try to figure out exactly what the problem may or may not be.. On a more then frequent basis people feel the same way u do right now, and they act out, by cheating, or by lying, or some sort of other fucked up way.. and they wind up really regretting it, becuase deep down inside they really do love their partner.. When you truly love someone, you dont want to intentionally hurt them.. Cheating is the worst way to intentionally hurt someone, and do possible long - term, permanant damage. While it may hurt your partner to hear that your not happy anymore, it will hurt a lot less then them finding out you went elsewhere.... Think about if someone did it to you. To make a long story short...Cheating on someone is really fucked up in my opinion... ------------------ "ouT 4 doL"