tvc15

*panting in between mad sets of push ups* Almost!!!

I think you have two choices: 1. Take it as a sign 2. Use it as an opportunity to be really wild. Ask him/her about totally controversial topics and see where it goes. If politics won't do it, ask about their favorite position for sex.

Web Development. I came to check out the UBB software package for possible use in a project, and now I spend way to much time with you (fucking) fabulous people!

Shave on the sides and trimmed real short everywhere else. The preverbial pupic crew cut. (somebody make a "ten-hut" joke here please)

Now that's a hard question... that depends completely on the mood. You just have to work/hope/guess to make sure you're both in the same one at the same time. Nothing's worse than one wanting to bang and one wanted to carress. Okay, there's actually a lot of things worse, like no sex at all, but you know what I mean.

Not to split hairs, counselor, but they're both sex (ref. a former president's pre-impeachment testimony) But anyway... intercourse, fucking, whatever is always better (in my book).

Okay, ladies, so how do you bring it up? Is it safe to assume the woman should make the first move with the "third?" It's easy in here, but it's a great way to create a totally awkward situation when you're face-to-face. Suggestions? Real life examples?

On that note... a neighbor payed a little too much attention to how his roommate's girlfriend liked that same kind of attention. As a joke one evening, he walked in while she was at the kitchen sink, came up behind her, moved her hair to the side and kissed her neck. She purred, slid her hips gently into his crotch and turned to kiss him back... I've never heard anyone scream that loud. [This message has been edited by tvc15 (edited 06-21-2001).]

On that note... a neighbor payed a little too much attention to how his roommate's girlfriend liked that same kind of attention. As a joke one evening, he walked in while she was at the kitchen sink, came up behind her, moved her hair to the side and kissed her neck. She purred, slid her hips back gently into his crotch and turnded to kiss him back... I've never heard anyone scream that loud. [This message has been edited by tvc15 (edited 06-21-2001).]

Dude, you're on the verge of something huge (no pun inteneded). Those of us guys who are a little older had to get it through our fat heads that it's not all about the cock. You're being forced to learn it earlier which means you're going to be way ahead, my man. The women would probably agree that most guys aren't nearly as good in the sack as they think they are. Open yourself up to what they want, and you'll have so many women after you, everyone will want to know your secret (and the irony is, they'll all assume you must be hung like a monster). Focus on your other qualities, too. Not only are we not as good in bed as we think we are, we're not as interesting as we think we are. The best advice I could give is read a book! Anna Karennina got me laid. No lie. The woman found it so enticing that I could carry on a semi-intelligent conversation about something other than sports, beer, etc. that she basically took me and had her way with me. (It's a damn shame we didn't live in the same city... but that's another story). Tolstoi may be a little heavy, but read Hemingway (quite the cocksman, himself), Fitzgerald, Kerouac... Get your head out of your pants and work on the things that matter to women (not men). That other shit just makes you turn into a lame-ass, macho, got-something-to-prove idiot. And remember that every woman's most sensitive erogenous zone is between her ears.

Dude, you're on the verge of something huge (no pun inteneded). Those of us guys who are a little older had to get it through our fat heads that it's not all about the cock. You're being forced to learn it earlier which means you're going to be way ahead, my man. The women would probably agree that most guys aren't nearly as good in the sack as they think they are. Open yourself up to what they want, and you'll have so many women after you, everyone will want to know your secret (and the irony is, they'll all assume you must be hung like a monster). Focus on your other qualities, too. Not only are we not as good in bed as we think we are, we're not as interesting as we think we are. The best advice I could give is read a book! Anna Karennina got me laid. No lie. The woman found it so enticing that I could carry on a semi-intelligent conversation about something other than sports, beer, etc. that she basically took me and had her way with me. (It's a damn shame we didn't live in the same city... but that's another story). Tolstoi may be a little heavy, but read Hemingway (quite the cocksman, himself), Fitzgerald, Kerouac... Get your head out of your pants and work on the things that matter to women (not men). That other shit just makes you turn into a lame-ass, macho, got-something-to-prove idiot. And remember that every woman's most sensitive erogenous zone is between her ears.

*totally red faced* Am I the only one with the embarrassingly dirty mind...? Dude, well done with the double entendre.

From the new guy... Much aloha to a lovely bunch of people! I totally dig the vibe in this place! Lots of honest comments/question/opinions. I get this kinda smoldering, sexy vibe from everyone's comfort level with something we're always curious about. Come on everyone. Let's all hold hands and sing!! Sorry rudeboy, but you've got to wash your hands if you're going to stand next to me. The anal fixation is really funny, but, well, you know...

Mahalo! Where is it?

For those of us feeling a little out of it and not it nyc... what's sf?