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NO TEETH AND YOU`RE GOLDEN!!!!!!!

OK, this is great....I`ve wanted to discuss this with someone! But first, lets not catergorically dismiss people`s sexuality as disgusting or horrible.......I think any mutual consenting act between adults is perfectly fine, even if its not my cuppa joe! So, I couple weeks ago, after this girl I had been seeing begged me to get her high for the first time (hash), I consented and we took knifeys.......well, things natrually progressed to the bed (as all of our nights did). And being a good host, and so she could really dig the THC, I told her ' OK, I`ll do anything you want me do'........what was her one request, 'rape me'! I was like....WHAT? Are you sure? WHY? But anyways I consented with a little ruff sex and some dirty. BUT I did not dig it at all, it really kind of freaked me out! So here's the discussion.........She is japanese and almost all japanese porn centers on the rape fantasy, if not outright, the girl is always saying......Not allowed, stop (dame, dame)! I`m living here in Japan btw......and its a totally misagynisitc (sp?) culture where the man reigns in everything! Do you think it was these cultural influences is why she wanted to act out the fantasy, or is it a common fantasy among women, or, god forbid, maybe something happened to her long ago and she is reacting it out? I dont know what do yall think? Anyways, it wasnt cool, even though I have enjoyed rough sex (often actually) and even dirty talk on occasion.......do it under, even the fantastical pretenses of rape was not fun for me at all...........total buzzkill!

So I`ve never had a limp dick episode but.............. In college, I got passed around a group three friends, each on a different month. My last hook up in the group of friends was one I didn particuliarly care for, but I was drunk and after she got words of encouragement for the last friend I`d hooked up with, on how easy it was to seduce.......we wound up in her bed! She was giving me one of the worst blow jobs I`ve ever had......AND I FELL ASLEEP RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE! HAHA......She was pissed the next morning!

yeah, tastyt........I guess thats why I dont mind giving up my fri/sat. for a girl on the DL.......but thats coming fom a dude living in BF nowhere, Japan.....where my options are go out at crappy small town bars/clubs and spend a hundred bucks OR really go out in Tokyo or Nagoya and drop a cool 200-300 bucks!!! So I tend to try and chill on the weekends! I think what this discussion comes down to is everyone`s got valid points, but each hookup/relationship is different......which is why there so fun!

Tell Frankie, I`m there.....any more relaxed and I`ll turn it ambient trance........very mellow day at the office!!!! So he played in Tokyo last week, but I had no funds to see him! Damn shame!

Yeah, I totally agree its incredibly sexy when women get aggressive......Kinda takes the pressure off, and you dont have to be thinking as much!!! I`m living in Japan and thats one thing I really miss in the relationships I`ve been having lately!!!! Subserviant women SUCK!

OOps.....I meant to say take it or leave IT. Sorry, wasn`t going for the attitude! Syndarella....whatcha agreeing with?

NICE spygirl......I think most guys appreciate some womanly whenever!!! Some are common sense but it never hurts to review! So I got some for you women! Disclaimer: I dont claim to speak for the entire male gender, these are personal! 1. Comin in at a big number ONE.....when having oral sex, please keep the teeth off!!!! So simple....its THE only way to mess up oral sex, deep throating isnt neccessary, but NO teeth please! 2. This is in regards to your 13.....I can understand cum`s not the best delicacy, but on the other side of the coin, It`s a huge turn-off when you re close to cumming and girl acts as if a scud missile is inbound and dives for cover indisgust........or worse, when the girl gets nicked and B-lines it for the washroom going`gross, gross, get it off me`....it aint that big of a deal! 3. Let me hear ya make some NO-OISE!!!!! Wow-oh!.....nobody likes a dead fish, move around, breathe heavy, you gots to get into it! 4. The penis does not have to be the only point of focus! By all means explore around with your touch, many guys have other sensitive parts.....balls, nipples, ears, neck, in between their third and foruth toe bottom middle, etc. I think some girls don`t realize this a focus on the part everyone is obsessed with! 5. When a guy is having trouble cumming, it does not help to ask, ARe you done yet......or What`s wrong with you??? 6. Alright, last one.....It is not FAIR to bring up emotional/situtational problems or issues two seconds before penetrations!!!!! COme on seriously, this is not cool......Last girl I was with pulled this with, I quote....Do you think I`m letting my boyfriend down?.......I mean that wasnt fair, and I`m not as guilty as it would appear by this post. So....yeah, there you go, I`m bored at work and thought I`d get some gender dialog going! Take it or leave.

.......dg`s feelin it!!!!

Good point, knuckles!.....are you related to frankie by any chance?

yeah.....BUT if you just want to see a chick once in awhile keeping it on the DL, then going out on a proper type date maybe one or two fri/sat. nights a month IS a better way to go. I think sometimes they start thinking it`s serious when your hanging out on tues. night watching a vid/fucking.......oops did I say that?

Hey Man, I think some of those ARE bumperstickers already! Maybe you should contact a lawyer! Here`s my contribution stolen from the mouth of Homer J. *****Here`s to ALCOHOL, the cause (and solution) to all life`s problems!!!********

My mandarin and my cantonese are about the same, nonexistant! Though, it wasnt hard to get around , they speak alot of english (of course in HK, but also in China!). At least a lot more than in Japan, where I live! I dont have any plans to go back soon, not b/c I didnt like it or anything.........just b/c there are tons of places I want to go in Asia!!! So if you want to check out Tokyo clubs, I`m down.......went to some crazy ones last weekend, but HK is on my been there done that list....for now! Here`s a good site though www.hk.bcmagazine.net Happy trails, its a dope city!!!!

Yeah I went to Hong Kong over christmas! Club scene is OK (Bar scene is better), went to a place called Drop, kinda alot of banker-types for my taste, not exactly a hardcore scene, but a nice place! Went to a rave type thing that really sucked! DJ Krush, some others, but no drugs there, no alcohol and not that many people and it was New Years Eve!!!......Lame, I guess Carl Cox played a few days before that and that was the place to be! I`d recommend if you go there to take a train into CHina`s closest big city Guangzhou, they had some really cool clubs there, and nice places to stay for super cheap!

As a guy who always fanatized about (still do actually) I was pretty excited when it first happened.....I was in the shower with her and she actually bnet over and grabbed MY ankles and started slamming me into the shower wall. Probably one of the most pleasurable things that I've ever felt!!! But I got kind of weirded out by it, she had bruises, and it made me feel dirty....I never had sex with her again. I can't really explain it, was pretty crazy.