stinkerbell

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looks like a scientific sketch of the female organs....the ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus, and vaginal canal.....

moles like tunnels....

i have this theory about relationships that i made up in high school. treat your relationship like a wet slippery bar of soap. if you hold it gently in the palm of your hand, it will stay right there, but if you try to squeeze your fist around it, boom! it goes flying into outer space. she's really young to have been in a five-year relationship. and five good years together is a great track record for two young people. maybe you should give her her space for a little while and see what happens. as for how you handle this rough period, you have to use some really good coping skills. alcohol is a depressant and will only make you feel sadder, so avoid that if at all possible. the hardest break up i ever went through, i went sober for six months. that got me through it better than anything else could have. i dealt with the grief and anger straight up and didn't numb myself with drugs or alcohol. although i smoked too much and drank too much coffee! surround yourself with caring friends, don't go to places or do things that remind you of her, and keep as busy as possible. try to keep working!!! just throw yourself into it. and remember, one day at a time, and time heals all wounds. what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. best of luck to you in working things out with her, and if things don't work out, trust that you will find love and happiness again.

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