Doods, Love is not a feeling. Its a state of mind that we enter. Just like Fear. It is caused by an external source. Meaning, it is not something that originates from your heart. Love consists of many things. It is a combination of thousands of ideas and views. If you have a certain appeal to a something, consciously or subconsciously, for example you for some reason love Orange balls and you dont know why (prolly cause when u were a baby ur parents gave you one to play with and u loved it), then you might for some odd reason LOVE basketball. Now thats just a rough example so dont go all nuts on it. In terms of people, its the same way. If for some reason, you love it when girls pop their gum constantly (subconsciously, only because your first loved used to do it), then you might meet this girl who pops her gum, and for that reason alone you might LOVE her. Alot of times, when the reason you fell in love with someone for disappears so does the love. Like one day ur girl or guy might get a haircut, and thats it, you cant stand him anymore, and u dont even know why. I bet if you look at every person that your in love with, they have something in common with every other person you loved. The best reason for falling in love with someone, is something permanent. Not their abs, or their beautiful teeth, something like how they make you laugh, and how respectful they are, or how you have so many things in common. Thats love.