i hear you fiery....through the years i've noticed changes in my friends. in one day, out the next.... my best friend from when we were 3 yrs old has still not met my bf, and i've known him for one year!!! she and i live in the same friggin' town, i dont even see my man until the weekend.. so its not like i'm MIA at all. i've tried to make an effort to hang out (we dont chill as much anymore, yet when we do its like no time has gone by, we bug each other out til this day)...... i always tell her to chill with us but she works wack hours and never takes an initiative when she is off. so though its sad, you just gotta turn to people that WILL be there for you....