bigmurray

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This is it the end is here. This is it the last dance! What will be played as the true last song ever at Tempts? How insane will this event be? I know I'll be back at work doing the door for this one. I hope the club and Denny get the respect their due by a strong showing of of faces old and new.

I guess it was cool to see myself and my clubs on T.V. The truth is most of the other guys in that house are really good guys ( Mike Vinnie , Anthony) I know and treat those guys like gold when I see them roll up. This guy was a clown and only strengthened the rest of the countrys stereotype that NJ is full of ignorant uneducated, wanna-be mafia guys who just wanna spout off at the mouth and fight. Oh well it was a good laugh and it looked like those guys had a good time doing it plus with characters like that I'll be in business for a long time. Canoli's are a staple of the NJ after hours scene

If you want to make any money do 18 to party hip hop!!

For you entertainment Joe Boz, Will have me out at the door, so please stop by and watch me freeze for 6 hours in this shitty cold weather. Oh yeah we also have KIRK LOPEZ, JOE GIORGIO, AND PERFORMING LIVE TINA ANN. THE LINE WILL PROBABLY START AT 10 or 11 so plan accordingly. Line privilege to who ever brings me a set of those little hand warmer things. Thank you

ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I WORKED A DOOR BUT I THINK I STILL NO THE RIGHT THING TO DO!!!! JOEYS IS A GREAT PLACE WITH A GREAT STAFF. I LOVE JOEY'S AND JOE BOZ!!!!!!!!

If theres any greasin going on I want a part of it.

liqidtouch Sorry to report Rupert is dead!! I new this guy from when I was a kid he would come into my cousins deli and sing a song and they would feed him. He died in his van at Dunkin donuts. He was a great singer who got hooked on drugs when he was in vietnam, came back to home and never got his shit straight.

I would like to thank the vast majority of the crowd for behaving Sunday. You guys had fun and kept yourselves in control for the most part. The exception of the few assholes that thought throwing bottles was fun, it was a good night. The tens years in this business and 8 Closing parties this was the craziest one yet. The summers done after this weekend and then were back in "SESSION" at DEKO, this was the most amazing party last year, but that wasn't a shocker,being that Sergio and his crew are the best around, be sure to join us starting the 13th of September for another Sicckkkkkkkkkkkk Party!!! To Denny Tsettos, Thank you, for keeping my business running every summer my crew grows and its because you put the bodies in the place.

He is a definite Icon in the Club scene. I've been seeing him everywhere for the ten years I've been in this business.

I will probably be back at Deko, in Sept. as well as Joey's.

I am coming out of my short lived retirement this Saturday at tempts, and will be back to work full time starting this fall.

I will be at Abyss Wed!!!!!!!!!

I spoke to the guy that runs Tempts for me and he is aware of the problem. The person will be dealt with accordingly. If you or anyone has any problems in the future, please find Joel or Todd and they will be able to handle the problem. I will be there this saturday to check up on things. I hope everyone has a great end to their summer. Thank you Murray

I'm the owner of the company that supplies bouncers to Tempts, along with most of the other clubs down the shore. I don't know about this incident, but its not easy to hire over a 100 bouncers. There's gonna be a bone head in the bunch somewhere. If anyone has a problem with a bouncers they should finds the manager and he will get the head bouncers and the problem can be addresses right then and there. That way its over and you can continue to have a good time. Thank You Murray

I'm sorry to hear about this, myprayers are with his family and friends. MURRAY

I have purchased the Joey's in Clifton. Thats right I'm the new owner. Starting September 1st, 2003 Joey's will be no more. I'm shutting it down and renovating it. I will reopen News Years Eve december 31st 2003. It will feature a new sound system worth roughly 700,000 dollars and we will feature only the Worlds Best in Polka Music and Irish folk dancing, with a once a month tribute to Van Halen.

To start off this was the best MDW in a long time maybe ever, with 1998 running a close second. Despite the crappy weather it was an overall great weekend. Now on to Tempts, I would like to thank all of you that came "home" this past weekend, you guys packed the place both nights. Sunday was complete insanity between the crowd, KTU, and the media it was hard to keep track of what the hell I was suppose to be doing. The crowd was great you guys all behaved and we only had 1 very minor incident, so in my book it was a complete success. The music I never comment on because I know nothing about it, but I caught myself bouncing along to it a few times. This is my 5th summer and its amazing the same people keep coming back year after year, how do your bodies handle the abuse, I'll never understand. Then theres this whole new crowd of young kids that are even more crazy then the "old timers." Jersey Joel, you keep pulling it off year after year by putting a great staff together and keeping Denny behind the wheels. My owners are the best even though one of them loves to break my balls night after night I love him anyway. If you guys keep up with this past weekend this will be the summer of all summers.

You must have been watching because theres no way you were fighting. HMMM maybe Brian 1500 has a good idea Tempts/XS Saleen free in '03. Your a sad excuse for person, all you do on he is rip on people and tell us whats wrong with everything and everybody. How about whats wrong with you. How about your "friends" from seaside who run the clubs laughed when I inquired about you telling me I had to be kidding , you're nothing but a pain in the ass and honestly kinda dorky. I think the way it was put was he's like the guy in H.S. you new was a loser but felt bad for so you let him tag a long. If your "friends" think that way i'd hate to know what your enemies think. I'm getting tired of your expertise, I've been bouncing since '94 and have far more experience and knowledge on what it takes to run a club so keep your uninformed bullshit to yourself.

Please, I have taken Tempts from a free for all blood bath with fights, chaos and law suits and have reduced it to practically none I mean we have fights but think back to 98-99 when every other minute there was a brawl and guys were all beat to shit. Compare that to the last 3 summer and tell me which club you prefer to hang out in. I have never done drugs , people that know me know this, I have a great working relationship with the police and we comply with everything they ask of us. My "buddies" don't get away with shit in Tempts because my friends my real friends don't even hang out in Seaside. Their not even into the club scene. I think you may have me confused with someone else that used to work at Tempts. Just so you know I have built a solid reputation in this area and club owners know I'm as straight as they come. I have never put them in a bad situtation ever. You know not to be a jerk-off but you sent me a pm last year around this time saying I should basically look for a new job. I find it funny that I'm still here, I run more clubs for them and I got a raise. The people that really count must think I'm doing a pretty good job. The fact that you were a bouncer I find hard to believe!! You were a doorguy probably see there is a big difference when you put your time in on a crate and stand on your feet in one spot for 7 hours and break up fights or carry out some crackhead as they puke on your shirt. Give it up you should worry about florida and we'll take care of NJ!! Trust me we can handle it without your input we have been in bussiness for awhile and are managing to eek out a living without your help. Just so you know not to be on power trip but if you did show up and made it known you were there I could have you out of the club and not allowed back before you knew what was happening. Spare me the I doubt its because your friends with so and so, because I had plenty of people who claimed to such good friends with management and owners removed with no problems at all. Sometimes in life it just makes more sense to be quiet and go about your business then to make waves and rock the boat. I practice this myself I mind my own fucking business and don't worry about anybody else but me and the people that rely on me. I hope all of us have Safe and Fun summer season because they go by fast. Regards Murray

First of all I never knowingly let an underage person in for any kind of money ever and as far as smuggling other stuff in your a fucking asshole because anybody thats knows me knows that I have a deep hatred for drugs and the people who use them, never ever ever in my entire life would I smuggle anything anywhere, your out of your fucking mind. People "tip" to cut the line and not have to wait, they all pay the cover because another thing I don't do is steal money from my employers. You are truly an ignorant bastard and if you would like to talk out the rest of this please feel free to stop by anytime, and maybe you can share the rest of your opinions with me and then I'll share some of mine with you! I wonder do you make statements like that about people you don't know all the time it could be considered slanderous. I think you should retract your statements because one thing I am and thats honest and loyal to my club owners and I don't fuck with their business or do anything to put it in a bad spot. People that know me know I have certain morals and while I'm not perfect I am honest and clean. OU is right there is a differance from some jerk-off who storms up front and acts like he's my best friend to someone who conducts himself properly. Trust me there are people who don't wait because according to whoever their "somebody" to me most of them are low lifes and if it was up to me they would wait no matter what but for now the powers that be say differant. So, I don't question your job or how you do it, maybe you shouldn't question mine. I look forward to your response and to hopefully one day meeting you. Not to keep harping on the drug comment because you really really have me pissed about that, if you truly knew how I feel about drugs that comment would never been made. If you've ever seen the way I react to the overdoses that happen you would know I have ZERO tolerance or compassion towards drugs in any aspect. Thank you have a lovely summer. Murray :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

Where should I begin.... First of all I personally let the Club owners decide on how strict they want us to be on I.D. the fact of the matter is this, I could care less about your I.D. however the owner trust me with his multi million dollar bussines and his very valuable liqour license. So with that being said I feel obligated to to right by them and bust your balls until I'm satisfied that 1 its real or 2 its fake in which case I'll keep it if your a prick or I'll give it back and send you on your way if your cool about it. Trust me I'm last guy that wants any problems at all, screwing with your I.D. isn't a way for me to get off its just a job that I have to do. Now down to business, lines will be long very long extremely long. I hope we're clear on the proper procedure to avoid the lines, if you need clarification please let me know. I will tell you this now, I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE OR HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND YOU THINK YOU ARE TO ME. I HAVE ONLY 3 FRIENDS NEXT WEEKEND AND THEY ARE MR. JACKSON, MR. GRANT, AND MY ALL-TIME FAVORITE MR. FRANKLIN. I HOPE THIS IS EXTREMELY CLEAR AND MY POINT HAS COME ACROSS WITHOUT ANY MISUNDERSTANDING!!! Some of you frown on this however it only happens 2 times a year and I need to save up for my wedding so remember that when you see me plus i have 20+ guys inside who stand on milk crates for 7 hours while you nutty bastards have a good time so I have to take care of them. Oh and by the way this clown of a bouncer makes a lot more than sixty a night, in fact 9 years ago I was making more than that. I thank you in advance for your cooperation in this matter and look forward to seeing you and your money next weekend. Regards, Murray

What to expect at the door of the clubs I run. ( Surf Club, Tempts, XS) You will need an orignal Driver License, and a suitable form of back-up (not your ATM or credit card) acceptable backup w/ drivers license: Valid Passport w/ current picture- no photo copies County I.D military I.D. work ID w/pic school ID w/pic Birth certificate only when with an orignal DL Soc. Card only when with an orignal DL No Drivers License head to DMV and get an I.D. only form them and then make sure you have as miuch of thae other shit listed above!! YOUR EXCUSES WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED, YOU"VE BEEN TOLD AND HAVE AMPLE TIME TO MAKE ARRANGEMENTS.

John Murray is a flaming gay Bastard. He worked for one of biggest gay clubs in vegas. If you let him touch your cock you'll get into the VIP

First of all, lets start by saying he is innocent until proven guilty and this is just my opinion based on personal observation and hearsay. I need to legally protect myself from slander and other bullshit if he is innocent, which I highly doubt. This little weasel bastard, I started calling him a pedophile last June when he did Teen night at Tempts. I would be working outside and see this little prick trying to play the role of big shot to a bunch of little girls. I mean dude your fucking 24 do your job and get the fuck away from these kids. This fag would pull girls off line talk to them be all caught up in their baby drama and then show off his ride to a fucking high school kid like it was some big deal. I would bet my life on it that this guy was loser in High School and developed some kinda complex from getting his ass handed to him so he found a niche as kiddie DJ. Now he can get all those pretty high school girls that made fun of him back in the day to think he was a "cool" guy a big shot. Give me a fucking break, I'm a fucking teacher and some of the girls look like their 25 but you still know their not, this guy obviously has no morals at all and couldn't get a real girl if his life depended on it. If he videotaped himself with these KIDS, I would like to see him castrated in a public forum and it should be performed by some the young ladies parents or I'm available if they would like. The fact that he abused his "power" and influence to prey on young girls who no doubt were looking for some kind of male acceptance or trying to fit in with the older "cool" crowd is sickening and disheartening. He has undoubtly given a black eye to all club owners and employees by this scandal. It will affect teen nights through out the area. The numbers will be down less staff will be needed, hence less people working. I agree some of the outfits and the way some of these kids act is down right raunchy and disgusting but as an adult you have to say to yourself their just kids and hope that down the road they change their ways or their parents knock the shit out of them and straighten it out right in the beginning. Fuck this scumbag and the other jerk-off that went down with him. I hope their stay in jail is on par with a Vietmanese war camp and that they are given a memory to haunt them for a life time or at least until some one perforates their colons with a foreign object and they die from bleeding out of their assholes. These are just the thoughts of a regular guy. I welcome your thoughts and opinions even if the differ from mine. :blown: