Boys, Boys, Boys, now why would either of you waste your time trying to get something through to eachother when it is not going to work. obviously both of you are stubborn-and i dont mean that as an insult so please dont tear me up for saying that. fat0ny, i dont know you but i am sure that you are a joker and if humor is the only thing that comforts you, then so be it. but you dont necessarily have to let the world know your opinions when you dont even know if that victims family will read it and goes through more pain than necessary. fury, you should know that people in our lives will say things to offend us, and if we waste our time trying to set everyone straight, we'll waste our whole lives. personally, i love humor. but as with all things in life, i believe that there must be a balance. you need to draw the line somewhere, but i am not about to start drawing everyone lines for them. we are all big kids here (somewhat). so there is my stimulating contribution to this little fiasco. buh bye. ;)