envyla

when YOU know something is over it's best if it just ends. Save yourself the trouble and the pain. There is no point being in a relationship that you know is not good for you... Best of luck

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december 24th, i've always tried to get it done early but i always find myself running around like a nutcase on Christmas eve.

i've always tried being nice in these kinds of situations but sometimes people are so damn stubborn that you have no choice but be mean.. be blunt even if it is harsh if he still doesn't listen then hang up and ignore him..

ditto

i'm having the exact same problem except i'm one step ahead, the relationship is over he just doesn't want to remove himself from my life.

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some girls are real piggish. I was at a club one night and went into the washroom and as I open the stall door there was some girls tampon floating in pinkish water.. wtf? just kick the flush handle.

i've told him you've hurt me and i don't want to talk and he insists that i give him 5 minutes until i get so frustrated at his lack of respect and hang up..

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as for hotels there are tons of them in all price ranges i'd say comfortable at a good rate would be either Sheraton or the Holiday Inn downtown montreal.. as for dining there are restaurants on every street corner and sometimes there are 6 or 7 on every street block. I totally depends on what kind of food you're into. as for me I lobe soho, mikado and tsircos. uhmm as for clubs we have sona, aria, stereo, tokyo those are all concidered good clubs. Depending when you're in town you might want to check up the lineups and dj's spinning..

this is what i've been trying to do. I didn't want to get involved in any kind of relationship with him. I kept my distance but felt almost obliged to wish him a happy birthday and every since he's been calling. I can't help but be angry towards him and still even after I tell him that we aren't good for each other in a relationship or friendship he insists that we must stay part of each others lives. I was quite happy those two weeks alone. I had the chance to do things and go out with friends which I was pretty much held back from in the past. and now, it's taking a downward spiral. The second he said that the relationship was over should have been the second that all the bickering ended but instead he decided to come back for a second round and i'm just not in any mind frame to deal with him or the baggage it's creating.

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well what do you want to know exactly, i'm more than happy to help

well, I'm not quite sure what to make of this so maybe you people can give me a little impartial advice. After a year with my ex boyfriend we came to a decision to end our relationship. It was more of his decision and I was forced to go along with it. At the time he told me that I made him extremely unhappy and actually told me that I made him miserable. The night it all ended he made it perfectly clear that he never wanted to speak with me again. Two weeks passed and we hadn't spoken to each other at all except for the few times that we were both online and he decided to send me a message. I escaped conversations with him by cutting it short because to tell you the truth it isn't easy speaking with someone who not long ago accused you of ruining their life. Not long after it was his birthday. I wasn't sure if I should send him a birthday wish and put it off to the last minute. Finally, I decided that I shouldn't call him but instead I sent him an email that just said Happy Birthday. I didn't have anything to say to him but just wanted him to know that I remembered. That morning he called and thanked me for being sweet and whatnot. Since then, he's been calling me almost every second day and telling me that he wants me to be part of his life and that he can't live without me not being around. He told me that he didn't mean any of the things he told me that night and that he was just really frustrated at the situation. It's been almost two weeks since we've sort of been speaking again and it really isn't going well. I can't help but be angry at him and because of it I can't bring myself to ever call him. Every time we talk we get into an argument and end up hanging up on each other. I try and explain that it's difficult to be friends with a person who I spent a year of my life with and he just can't understand that the transition will be hard and will take time. That is if it will actually work in the end. He's always accusing me of playing games with him and telling him that he's a terrible person. But, I never call because i'm too scared that he'll make me feel bad and I never really say much to him because I want to avoid the fights. I'm terribly confused and i'm not sure what to do. Some people tell me that he's probably lonely and some others tell me that he's only out to hurt me. I don't bother with him anymore and i think that is what's pushing him to run after me like this. Do you think that friends after a break up is possible? or shoud I just continue not wanting to speak with him because it's in my best interest? (i know it's long and i'm sorry. It just put a lot into perspective for myself)