lol- it was actually a supposition I made- ever wonder why there are girls we don't like- who fall for us? I think that because we don't look at them as a potential date, we portray all of the qualities a girl wants- confidence- self- respect- we don't get nervous- we show no interest- I feel that we are unknowingly becoming a challenge to them- if we act this way toward girls we like- then, it will be all good