It's like others before me said: It's our history that shapes us. And I don't see anything wrong bringing that up....... aslong as the other person is interested or asked for it... You can feel guitly about certain things. Other topics need to be discussed. But why think about it? Life is one lesson.... there's nothing wrong bout honesty....just interact with people if you feel like you need that.. it's all about feelings....aslong as you try to look at it the positive way there's nothing to be afraid of....... even emotional setbacks can turn out to be positive at the end...