gfofaguy

thanks to all of you who gave me real advice. i appreciate it!!!!

Thanks!!! tell me a little bit about yourself and i'd be happy to list all your flaws!!!! And not that i care what you think, but after almost 6 years, i think my relationship will work and overall, i like who i am despite criticism from people like you!!!!!

ditto

that is what i'm afraid of. what if that goal is not attainable? i have a small frame but i'll never be a size 2. so he'll look elsewhere over that?? my man is not that shallow, but i think you are partly right-thats why i started this thread and you just confirmed what i was worried about. he says my boobs are nice naturally and has never said he wanted me to get fake ones, but i'm sure bigger would be better. i don't want to be fake though. i'm just gonna hope that everyone else on this board is right and you are wrong-no offense. i just don't want what you say to be true!!!!

my boobs got bigger so that was a plus. they can actually be pretty good for you so I wouldn't worry too much about blood clots and stuff. i have gained a little weight, but just water weight. she should try yasmin. it has a mild diuretic so that won't happen.

I admit it too, but this is not what I obsess about day and night or anything. sometimes I feel just fine about myself, but sometimes I just wonder, ya know. so i just thought i would get the opinion of others. thanks for all of it. i feel so much better. and i agree that everybody is a little psycho about something. this surely isn't the wierdest thread i've ever seen on here!!!!

The choking thing's a little wierd-that might freak me out a little, But rough sex is good. Even if it's too hard to feel good to me, it's cool knowing he's so into it so I enjoy it too.

Yeah, I hate how he comments about girls. He gets a little jealous when I comment about other guys, but he doesn't really care that much. I can handle his little comments about Britney and stuff, but lately it's about every descent looking girl on tv. That's not really my major concern. i was just wondering if maybe it was connected to the sex thing. I am definately gonna lay off for a while and let him get good and ready for me. i got to thinking why is he tired of it and i'm not. Maybe it's because I have the challenge. That's what he needs. Then maybe he'll always want it. If he always has to initiate it and never knows if he'll for sure get some, he'll always want to try, ya think? Cause he's said before that it doesn't really turn him on to think that he can get some whenever he wants. There's nothing to anticipate. But, also, whenever I told him that I always initaiate it, he said "maybe that's what I like." So I don't really know which it is. I'm thinking the first one because we don't always get it on when I initiate things. Thanks for all the input.

KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!!!! If you really were going to leave, then maybe you could tell her, but she does not need to know that you were going to sleep with her mom. That would freak any girl out. If you truly love her and would never cheat on her(without major enticement), then she doesn't need to know about this little incident. Were her parents really that wrong about your character? Technically you failed!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you love her and want to be with her forever, then you won't tell her because then you will never see her again. Think about how you really feel about her!!!

He is not doing drugs, drinking, he hasn't been with many other girls at all(none for sex, just stuff), we hooked up a lot when we first got together. Because of me we waited till about a year ago to have sex though. That's what I don't understand. He used to be so damn horny all the time, now nothing. I understand that I just need to wait so that he will have time to want me, but he must not want me too bad if it takes him a week to finally initiate it. I guess both of us have laid off of foreplay. I guess I need to take care of that problem and he will pick up on it and hopefully do the same (whenever we actually do get it on.) He doesn't excercise or eat right, but he never really has. He is a Capricorn. Mean anything? I know it's not the church thing. Here's a question though. How much do you guys out there comment about hot girls on tv? Over the years he does that more and more (prob just cause he's comfortable with me now) but he does it a lot lately. He has a bunch of pics on his computer too. I am attractive-skinny, good ass and legs, not big boobs though, but he's always liked them. Is that just a guys nature or does he really wish I looked like that? Thanks a lot for your help. Keep replying!!

i can't say that your replies make me feel any better, but I agree. That's why I posted!!! I always worry about things, so he'll just blow it off if I ask him about it. Any ideas about what I can do? He says he still wants to be with me forever and he's very sincere and into it when we do have sex. I don't know what to think. Keep replying!!!

I have been with my bf for 4 years. Lately it seems that I always initiate sex (or oral or whatever we do). When I ask him about it he says it's easy for me to get him excited so it shouldn't matter who initiates it. It seems that we always go 5 days or so in between. Even if I try to initiate it more. Why???? Is he just used to me. He's only 21. I'm 19. It sucks that he already acts like we're 40. Any thoughts???? What can I do to change this????Thanks.