I have been dreading this day but i can't avoid it any longer... I never have luck with hairstylists in NJ, either they cut it too short or burn my hair... coloring is not bleaching... one trying to bleach my hair saying that she's just coloring it. it hurt so badly that in 5 min i was in tears from the pain and than my hair turned out super blonde... grrr... and it was suppose to be a good salon too. I'm looking for something not too expensive in northern NJ. Preferably a gay hairstylist... they just seem to do the best job on my fussy hair. help, please any suggestions are greately appreciated.