Na I dunno about it having to do with an ex... The way I am is like... I like to be able to get a guy that I want and in my mind I feel like "o yea, I really like this guy, he's perfect for me" and he could play hard to get. But when I finally get him... I don't want him after awhile. I get bored fast and easily and then the whole process starts again and I don't know why!