let's say you found a nice person .. but then you think about marriage , having a family and growing old with this person and you feel like you're gonna choke + vomit. And the thought is just so horrifying IS that a good sign ? You see wedding videos and some people passing out or puking at their weddings becuz they're so nervous.. . These are reactions of nervous people who are afraid or think they're making a huge mistake .. not something happy people in love do I don't think those are good signs . EX. Carrie from Sex & the City almost vomited/suffocated when she was about to marry Aden even though he loved her and was a nice guy SO is this a typical normal healthy reaction to LOVE ?