Ok usually u r attracted to someone which makes u go up to them & start having a conversation w/him or her & then u r able to check out their personality.A person can be Mega Hot and have the suckiest personality ,which in my eyes makes them much,much less attractive.A person can be cute but if they have an awesome personality it makes them that much better looking. I am very lucky in the fact that my boyfriend is a totally SEXY & quite the Hottie & also has the most awesome personality!