when i drink, i usually cant control the amount i drink, end up blacking out & not remembering a single thing that happend...(how i got home, what i did, wheres my bag, my SHOES???) its pretty bad & now i try so very hard to not drink, but its hard being 22 & thats what my friends do! Back to the question tho... i had a bf for 2 yrz, i only had eyez 4 him, loved him very much & would NEVER consider cheating....BUT one night i was with ppl when he wasnt there, got completely trashed (which normally wouldnt happen if he WAS there), and ended up having sex with one of his friends! now i normally wouldnt even look twice at this kid, i didnt have any hidden feelings for him, nothing like that, and til this day still dont kno exactly WHAT happend, but all i kno is that if i WASNT drunk, i never ever would have cheated. nor would i have done SO MANY stupid, horrifying things while ive drunk and almost alwayz blacked out in the past. sadly some ppl may use being drunk as an excuse, but for me i truly have no contol over the things i do & it sux...bad.