i wanted this same exact thing, and i got it, its fucking amazing, i use all bed head products, this is how i do it. shampoo - bed head control freak shampoo conditioner - leave in while i shave in teh shower and wash my face - bed head control freak conditioner serum - bed head control freak serum put in after about 30 mins after i get ouyt of the shower and i let my hair airdry for a while right before i go out - bedhead girl toys, this stuff is fucking amazing, gives you the 2nd day look and tons of shine. btw im a guy, and im growing my hair out, kidn of like the singer from taking back sunday. maybe like down to my nose in the front, but only like an inch or inch and a half on the back and sides, but top and front i want like 6-8 inches long. it looks really good. i dont have my digicam here at college so i cant provide pics unfortunately, but i can try and find some online.