I was in a 5 yr relationship and when you break up it's a terrible pain. However, time is the only thing that will truely heal you, but I promise you, you'll be ok in the end (with or without her). Everything happens for a reason, even if you don't see it now. After my break up I was single for a little over a year, then I found the love of my life, so it seems. We have now been exclusive for 8 months. I am so in love with her and it's wonderful. Hang in there man and I promise you'll be ok. Remember, you were a person before her, she did not make you who you are...you did. Good luck, stay busy, and soon enough you'll have other girlies saying "ayyyy que bueno!" Best, ayquebueno