Hmmm. Sounds like this guy is determined! If my sister was telling me about this problem i would tell her to try and ignore him. Since he seems to have some issues, any attention you give him; even negative attention is going to make him want you more. The best thing you can do is just ignore him completely! For example: If he calls, just ignore the call, dont pick it up and dont even listen to the voice mail. Just delete the voice mails as he leaves them. I bet if you do that for a little while he will get the hint. Negative attention to some insecure people is better then none at all so dont even bother with any response. If he continues after a couple of weeks you might just have to take it up a level. But before you do anything like that just try to ignore. Good Luck. Jeff