i see where you're coming from but i'd say it's a mostly biased, stereotypical and exaggerated point of view, and besides it depends on the party and the place (roxy saturdays is definitely a bad example). Most gay parties are not for hooking up, if some people wish to do so it's really an individual choice. It depends who you are and what you make of it. I'd say most people will be there for the fun, the vibe, the music, hanging out with friends.