Hi Everyone, I've been lurking for a while (okay, like 10 minutes -- I'm bad at being quiet ) and have a question. Is getting into classy, fun clubs with smart people and good music really as complicated and exclusionary as it seems? A girlfriend and I travel a lot together, but we spend most of our time shopping, eating and drinking wine at bars. The club scene wasn't something that really appealed to us until now. We live in Texas, so standing in lines or getting behind velvet ropes has never been an issue. You want to get in somewhere, you just pay at the door and go have fun. So now we're planning a trip to NYC and the thought of getting turned away seems kind of humiliating. Is planning an evening at a club even worth it? Am I over-thinking this?