A newlywed husband initiated sexual activity with his bride every night by turning to her and asking if she "would like to do the laundry". One night after more than a year, she replies in the negative for the first time, pleading a headache. In the morning, feeling quite guilty over her failure to meet her husbands needs, she asks him if he "would like to do the laundry" to which he replies: "No thanks, it was a small load, I did it by hand"