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One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)...

Can someone explain or inlighten me...

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Originally posted by origskeemr

One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)...

Can someone explain or inlighten me...

This is the first time I have heard anything like this before.

Even prudes get themselves off.

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Originally posted by origskeemr

One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)...

Can someone explain or inlighten me...

i knew a chick like this before ..let me tell you it was very fustrating ... she had o fucking libido(sex drive) they are just born that way ...they can take hormones n shit but its only temporary & she'll end up being the same .. we broke up cause i was always having mixed feelings about whether she was attracted to me or not...but it ended up just being her... i was kind of confused for awhile until i started dating again ... i went out with this chick & i was scared of not being good enough cause of my last relationship...let me tell you tho.. i blew her socks off !!:laugh: .. & i kinda needed that cause i was very unsure of myself for awhile there... she ended up dating again but still has the same problem...she calls me every once in awhile & we talk about shit like that .. but her relationship is on the ocks again cause of her problem..that really sucks that some people like me are born with so much of something & some are born without it ... i guess its a compatbility thing... i guess shell have to find a man one day with no sex drive like herself....

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Originally posted by koky

her relationship is on the rocks again cause of her problem..that really sucks that some people like me are born with so much of something & some are born without it ... i guess its a compatbility thing...

my issues aren't as physical as this girl's...but I can relate to how it sucks, and how much pressure it puts on things. Most of the time in sexual situations, I find myself trying to field off attention drawn to myself...just so I won't have to fake it, or explain to the guy why I didn't get there. :(

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is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with :(

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Originally posted by hardtopleaz

is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with :(

You know what?? I never thought of that:confused: But then again i can never ask her sumptin liek that, but you have a good point.

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Originally posted by origskeemr

One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)...

Can someone explain or inlighten me...

stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u :tongue:

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Originally posted by sfspikes2envy

stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u :tongue:

lmao shut up johnathan;)

Hardtopleaz~ No she doesnt masterbate nor is she a lesbien... at least from what i know... see i dont know her that well i just know this.

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a tilted uterus just means her baby will develop in an abnormal environment...and her labor might be more difficult because of this..but i would think this would enhance her sexual pleasure because of the position it is now in? or maybe i don't know enough....i dunno....

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Originally posted by hardtopleaz

is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with :(

That's actually the first thing that came to my mind... I mean, shit, she doesn't even like to have orgasms??? If not sexual abuse, there's definitely psychological issues at play... definitely therapy and possibly medication are in order...

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Originally posted by tastyt

That's actually the first thing that came to my mind... I mean, shit, she doesn't even like to have orgasms??? If not sexual abuse, there's definitely psychological issues at play... definitely therapy and possibly medication are in order...

Damn, i didnt think it could be this bad... Do they have shit she can take for this:confused:

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Originally posted by origskeemr

Damn, i didnt think it could be this bad... Do they have shit she can take for this:confused:

There are hormones if hers are out of whack; and women can use viagra too. But because sex is such a psychological thing with women, if her head isn't on straight about the whole thing, no amount of medication will do any good.

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Originally posted by sfspikes2envy

stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u :tongue:

LMAO!!....it's not him.....it's just what the girls tell him so they don't have to sleep with him and his coffee colored penis!!;)

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:laugh: how could someone not like orgasms???

:blown:

i dunno but i dont think tilted uterus has anything to do with whether you like orgasms or not. it may affect whether you like penetration, but thats all. if you have a tilted uterus sex may be uncomfortable when there is deep penetration.

your friend should go to the dr and get some meds, maybe shes depressed.

maybe she just hasnt met the right person.

:confused:

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Originally posted by misk

LMAO!!....it's not him.....it's just what the girls tell him so they don't have to sleep with him and his coffee colored penis!!;)

You and shithead are always jokin... it has nuttin to do with me i swear or whom i get ass from:blank:

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Originally posted by koky

i knew a chick like this before ..let me tell you it was very fustrating ... she had o fucking libido(sex drive) they are just born that way ...they can take hormones n shit but its only temporary & she'll end up being the same .. we broke up cause i was always having mixed feelings about whether she was attracted to me or not...but it ended up just being her... i was kind of confused for awhile until i started dating again ...

Hey that sucks man.

Sex is an important part of a relationship in my opinion. If I am with someone I care about, I want to be as close to them as possible. I enjoy having sex with someone I love or care deeply for much more then just someone I am hooking up with.

When it is all said and done, there is not that "empty" feeling when you are with a loved one. Maybe I am babbling, I dunno.

Anyhow, I would grow frustrated and curious myself if this happened to me with any partner of mine. You did what you had to do. :)

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