marcid21 Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 ...you notice on a guy/girl, while your out, that makes you want to approach them? :confused: :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by marcid21 ...you notice on a guy/girl, while your out, that makes you want to approach them? :confused: :confused: eyes. not just the way they physically look but the feeling i get or dont get when i look into them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 If I'm out, the way they're dancing.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 If it's someone across the way, it's definitely the whole package, how they are dressed, face, the way they carry themselves..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 How they carry themselves, just "being yourself". . .and not purposly bringing attention to themselves, intoxicated, or just acting like an asshole. also shoes! ::i have such a footware fetish, dont ask:: and yep, the way they dance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted May 10 Author Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by somebitch eyes. not just the way they physically look but the feeling i get or dont get when i look into them. yeah...I totally agree. The eyes are the windows to the soul...after that, then I take an overall look. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by somebitch eyes. not just the way they physically look but the feeling i get or dont get when i look into them. That's a sweet response Sometimes i'll see some very attractive smurfettes, but if their eyes are cold/uninviting, im totally not smurfin it Eyes can speak volumes, as well as body language. So i wouldn't say there's one particular thing im looking for... it's more 4 those non-obvious -non-verbal connections i base things on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautious1 Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 On first sight, It's def. a total package thing... I look at their height, weight, proportions, clothing, face, attitude, demeanor... Sounds like a lot to take in, but it's a split second snapshot thing...It all sounds so superficial, and it has to be at first. It's whatever "catches your eye"...But, it's important to look deeper once the initial contact is established... Intelligence, Personality is a big one! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 the vibe they're giving off... you can kind of read people by their interaction with others... I don't know... how to explain it better... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 these days, the first thing i look for is a wedding ring...i know this sounds too general, but there is no one thing i look for...every woman has something different that makes her attractive, sometimes it's more than one thing...it could be her eyes, the way she's dancing, the way she's carrying herself, a sexy hair-flip...all in all, I'm a slut and attracted to them all...i have no one thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Really big funbags that I can take a nap on. heh...I dont really look...when I go to clubs im in it for the music.But now and then a girl slaps me upside the head and makes me dance with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by marcid21 ...you notice on a guy/girl, while your out, that makes you want to approach them? :confused: :confused: not running away when they see me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 And I thought I was the image of shining self-confidence.Dont take it so hard bigpopa...your not THAT hidious. Except for that eye-twitching...and all that nose-hair of course.Originally posted by bigpoppanils not running away when they see me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prplhz Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by clubkat How they carry themselves, just "being yourself". . .and not purposly bringing attention to themselves, intoxicated, or just acting like an asshole. also shoes! ::i have such a footware fetish, dont ask:: and yep, the way they dance LMFAO, I have a show fetish too! I always look at a guys shoes before talking to them, if they have bad shoes it usually reflects on them in every way, hygene, cleanliness, etc....I look at eyes, and looks, also body structure.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Originally posted by prplhz LMFAO, I have a show fetish too! I always look at a guys shoes before talking to them, if they have bad shoes it usually reflects on them in every way, hygene, cleanliness, etc....I look at eyes, and looks, also body structure.... HMM...that explains the strange looks i get in the subwaystill love my new rocks tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 Eyes and Face are what captivate my first glance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 i duno what i look @..well actually i do..hair...i love short hair...i dont mind it long either..i love streaks too..i duno..hehe..weird boy i am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyclubber01 Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 The way they carry themselves...how theyre interacting with people, dancing, etc. etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 How drunk they are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted May 10 Report Share Posted May 10 like everyone basically said....i look at the WHOLE package....if someone is hot...they are hot.....i won't be drawn to some fugly guy just cause he has nice eyes.... clothes,presence,the way he is acting towards me.........the way he acts towards others.....the size of the bulge in his pants!(((jussssst kiddding))).........but i am a major EYES AND LIPS girl....also...HAIR.....u have to have good hair...and nice teeth......and yea...if a guy can dance....holy shit...it's over!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted May 11 Report Share Posted May 11 The whole package, their interaction with other people etc. If anything I look at first, its the eyes and hair...It has to be short, Im not a fan of long hair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boach Posted May 11 Report Share Posted May 11 I guess the reason I only really meet people in a quiet environment like work or something is because I become attracted to someone, once we easily establish a rapport. A girl I am attracted to usually finds me just as funny as I find her and we can talk for hours about nothing and everything--that and she has to have a nice ass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted May 11 Report Share Posted May 11 1. very quick glance at overall body (anyone that falls through this filter, for example by having a bad fashion sense, too much excess fat, fucked up makeup, etc won´t make it to the next step)2. eyes. seductive eyes are very attractive. also people that communicate a lot through their eyes and face are very attractive. i met this girl in a club about 2 weeks ago, and she had AMAZING eyes. when i spoke to her (we were talking about coral diving) the whole expression on her face, especially her eyes, was that of a little boy that just got his first big red firetruck. she could express emotions so good with her face and body language... really amazing and VERY attractive.also sometimes you just see people that just ooze pure LUST. they stand in a corner or at the bar, you look at them and you want to feel them pressed against your body. you just wanna literally eat em up right there so sexy they are. you wanna taste them no matter what comes in your way. you´re acting on pure instinct that tells you *i want that , NOW* rrrroooaaarrrrr well, at least that´s how it is for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted May 11 Report Share Posted May 11 Originally posted by joeg the vibe they're giving off... you can kind of read people by their interaction with others... I don't know... how to explain it better... i know EXACTLY what you mean.... ...but id have to say eyes....something about them that gets me captivated... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brickhouse Posted May 13 Report Share Posted May 13 If I haven't already been introduced, it takes me being REALLY REALLY drunk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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