uscuba22000 Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 How many of you would agree to do something (go out with) with a guy just to be nice? Or How many of you would agree to do something ( go out with) with guy that you were not interested in? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 i went out with a guy because i felt bad....he was nice and all and i felt bad saying no(((which is sooo not like me))).....so i put myself through the torture of dinner with him....it took a lot of wine to make it through....i had him drop me off cause i was 'tired'......and was at a bar with my friends in no time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 Originally posted by misk i went out with a guy because i felt bad....he was nice and all and i felt bad saying no(((which is sooo not like me))).....so i put myself through the torture of dinner with him....it took a lot of wine to make it through....i had him drop me off cause i was 'tired'......and was at a bar with my friends in no time! i think thats worse than telling him no out right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 shut up!!!!! i feel bad enough as is damnit! .......no...but in all honesty....i told him i was in no way looking for any type of relationship or even seeing someone ....so it was completely on the table......and he still wanted to take me out so...whatever.....but i still would have rather just not went.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 would have made it less awkward Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 I have- I've met guys that I really enjoyed talking with, who wanted to take it to the next level. The idea was that, even tho there was zero attraction on my part, maybe once I got to know them a little better the sparks would start to fly. Well, they never did, and I wouldn't do it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 I'm really straight up with my intentions. If a guy is really nice but that tiny spark isn't there then i'll make it clear that I only want to be friends. If the spark is there then who knows what will happen.I've made the mistake before. I dated a nice guy who wasn't bad looking but I just wasn't attracted to him. He wasn't as outgoing as I am and didn't really have a sense of humour and I was constantly telling myself that I would eventually become attracted to him because he was a nice guy.Unfortunately, it didn't work. The whole relationship just didn't feel right and since then i make it perfectly clear from the get go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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