fierydesire Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 I wonder why many girls are like hell no and vow that they won't have sex on the first night! however, many of them end up doing it anyway. But also b/c most guys (even girls) create the connotation that the girl is a ho or skank. Sex on the first night doesn't mean that females are ho's! IMO, it just means you 2 were feeling each other enough to spark some fire! Do any of you feel that there is something wrong with it. Like women dont want to bust a nut also! Personally, I dont do it, but I don't knock those that do;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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tastyt Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 I've done it, but wouldn't ever again...It's not the whole thing with guys thinking you're easy or whatever, even though that's a definite possibility. It's just too soon, you know? Sex complicates things. And when you actually want a relationship, and you're just getting to know someone, it's best to keep things as uncomplicated as possible. Not only is "talk" time infringed upon by "fuck" time (lol), it's just sooo easy to think you actually like a person when all you really like is their sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 I don't think that having sex on the first night is bad...I think that we're all adults and we should start acting like adults..I also believe that judge of character is extremely important in making a sexual decision.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 so long as it's not 1.5 minutes and then off to bed...Originally posted by fierydesire Personally, I dont do it... tell us why...as for me...it's rarely worked out to be a positive result but it has happened... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 Originally posted by phatman ...it's rarely worked out to be a positive result but it has happened... agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted May 23 Author Report Share Posted May 23 Originally posted by phatman so long as it's not 1.5 minutes and then off to bed...tell us why...as for me...it's rarely worked out to be a positive result but it has happened... k I wont do it if I expect something further... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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puck Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 i dont think its anything bad and like some of said its the chemistry between people that sparks the interest. and also you can define this relationship as a sesual and it doesnt mean that she is a ho or your a player Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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puck Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 excatly bro......we said it the bestthere's nothing wrong with that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 i dont think there is anything wrong with it. i personally wouldnt do it b/c i probably wouldnt get off anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by phatman as for me...it's rarely worked out to be a positive result but it has happened... That's exactly it... except for me it *never* worked out to be a positive result... but hey, there are people who are married that slept together the first night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by tastyt That's exactly it... except for me it *never* worked out to be a positive result... but hey, there are people who are married that slept together the first night. Yep yep you and I think so much alike my dear! ....except for that coke vs trees debate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by fierydesire I wonder why many girls are like hell no and vow that they won't have sex on the first night! however, many of them end up doing it anyway. But also b/c most guys (even girls) create the connotation that the girl is a ho or skank. Sex on the first night doesn't mean that females are ho's! IMO, it just means you 2 were feeling each other enough to spark some fire! Do any of you feel that there is something wrong with it. Like women dont want to bust a nut also! Personally, I dont do it, but I don't knock those that do;) ok, i´ll try to explain my "poor horny girls" theory to youtastyt, don´t read well, society makes the poor horny girls feel guilty for having sexual desire while dudes glorify it. when a girl finally decides that society has no control of their life they break free and enjoy all kinds of sexual freedom. behind every innocent face there is a little slut inside. some girls are afraid to break out of it, but once they do they're out for good because there is nothing better than sexual freedom.also, deep down, all women are sluts (in the hands of the right man). all of them will fuck for something - typically the feeling of love - but often times cash, body type, marriage possibilities, or some other fantasy.there is no such thing as love - it's all business for pleasure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted May 24 Author Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by tastey also, deep down, all women are sluts (in the hands of the right man). all of them will fuck for something - typically the feeling of love - but often times cash, body type, marriage possibilities, or some other fantasy.there is no such thing as love - it's all business for pleasure. OK this is the most stupidist comment I have heard...deep down we are all sluts inside..are you fucking kidding me? This just shows what a misogynist, chauvinist pig you are and what mentality you possess. So very said that men think like this these days...It fucken pisses me off to the highest degree:biggun: sorry hun but for that comment you get :peeright:tastey:peeleft:Do you really believe there is no such thing as love? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by tastey well, society makes the poor horny girls feel guilty for having sexual desire while dudes glorify it. when a girl finally decides that society has no control of their life they break free and enjoy all kinds of sexual freedom. behind every innocent face there is a little slut inside. some girls are afraid to break out of it, but once they do they're out for good because there is nothing better than sexual freedom.also, deep down, all women are sluts (in the hands of the right man). all of them will fuck for something - typically the feeling of love - but often times cash, body type, marriage possibilities, or some other fantasy.there is no such thing as love - it's all business for pleasure. i dont know what troubles me more:a) that you truly believe in what you just saidor that you may have put this up here for effect and reactioneither way...it's kind scary and upsetting... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 i used to always say just go with the flow and who cares...but in this day and age, people need to be more careful about sleeping around...i've hooked up with hot guys after knowing them for a day, but never have gone so far as to have sex with them...now that's a little too much for me...maybe i'm old-fashioned..whatever.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nautilus60 Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by phatman so long as it's not 1.5 minutes and then off to bed...tell us why...as for me...it's rarely worked out to be a positive result but it has happened... i slept with my girl on the first date and ended up being with her for six years. So, i def. think theres nothing wrong with it. If its meant to be, it meant to be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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tastyt Posted May 24 Report Share Posted May 24 Originally posted by tommyarmani are you calling my mother a slut? Nah Tommy, I'm pretty sure he's just calling his own mama a ho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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tastey Posted May 25 Report Share Posted May 25 Originally posted by phatman i dont know what troubles me more:a) that you truly believe in what you just saidor that you may have put this up here for effect and reactioneither way...it's kind scary and upsetting... haha i like pushing buttons... yeah i know i´m a nutcase Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted May 25 Report Share Posted May 25 Originally posted by tastey haha i like pushing buttons... yeah i know i´m a nutcase umm... you def. believe that in your head... just easier to say you're a "nutcase" then to admit you're an asshole... just the pennies... now.on to other matters. i think tommy put it best...I believe in the rules that dictate human interaction , there are no ABSOLUTES....I believe its all about chemistry & being spontaneous & sometimes people just mesh together & its inevitable. I think it can happen without labeling someone a "slut" or "easy"when you connect with someone the first time you meet them, there can't be set guidelines, but everyone should def. be verrry careful. some people have bad experiences and some people have good ones... whatever works i guess... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted May 27 Report Share Posted May 27 Originally posted by marcid21 agreed Agreed!!! Done it has generally been a disaster! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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