SPYGIRL3 Posted June 2 Report Share Posted June 2 I was hanging out with this guy for a few months, now we're just friends and whatever. That's totally cool, no big deal. I have known his room mate for about a year, but I didn't know it was his roomate. His roomate is calling me and wants to hang out now???? I think it's a lil weird. Usually once I date/hang out, hook up w/ someone, I won't with one of his friends. Total nice guy and all, but what should I do? I don't mind hanging out with him if we are ina big group of peopel or at a house party, but other than that, IDK.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonicinfusion Posted June 2 Report Share Posted June 2 he wants to score you .. So do as u like Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted June 2 Report Share Posted June 2 are you intrested in the other guy ?? the original guy i mean ?? or is he intrested in you ?? if either of you are intrested in eachother i dont suggest you hangin with the roomate.... if there is nothing ever gonna happen between you 2, then it up to you whether you wanna go hang with the roomate or not... hope this helps.. ive been in a few situations like this & know whats up & what could happen...peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted June 2 Report Share Posted June 2 Well since your asking the board means your thinking about making an exceptions so just give it a try and see how this guy is you never know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 i would say just have fun but i personally wouldnt go for one roommate after i already had some kind of relationship with the other. maybe u can all party together?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I wouldn't do it either..... Just be honest and no one gets hurt......... Tell him when the time is right that you "just want to be friends" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by sonicinfusion he wants to score you .. So do as u like That sounds ssooo nice.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by rdancer Well since your asking the board means your thinking about making an exceptions so just give it a try and see how this guy is you never know Actually it kinda bugs me out..... We all have mutal friends, we all hang out..... I don't think I could make an exception for this one, too many people involved that know lots of info..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by perns2002 I wouldn't do it either..... Just be honest and no one gets hurt......... Tell him when the time is right that you "just want to be friends" That's what my gut says(NO).... I just gotta do it in a nice way, cuz we have a lot of common friends. I was thinking maybe it was some kinda weird test to see if I would go for the first guys room mate, but I don't think he'd do that.... IDK.... I guess I 'll just have to see what happens.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 That's what my gut says(NO).... I just gotta do it in a nice way, cuz we have a lot of common friends. I was thinking maybe it was some kinda weird test to see if I would go for the first guys room mate, but I don't think he'd do that.... IDK.... I guess I 'll just have to see what happens.... Good luck, you know what the right to do is. I mean you did had to ? it. Keep us posted. May the SHWARTZ be with you................. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Actually it kinda bugs me out..... We all have mutal friends, we all hang out..... I don't think I could make an exception for this one, too many people involved that know lots of info..... Well then, dont do it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 trust ur instinct... if u have any doubts at all.. dont do it... simple as that... itll probably be kind of annoying living with the mystery of what could have happened but itll be a LOT harder to live with it if something with ur friends gets fucked up and things dont work out... sometimes u need to just go for things... but other times u need to listen to ur gut instinct when its telling u not to do something. most of the time its right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by rdancer Well then, dont do it! I thought I was just over-reacting at first, then when I thought about it, it's kinda skectchy(sp)....I think I am going with no on this one.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 I thought I was just over-reacting at first, then when I thought about it, it's kinda skectchy(sp)....I think I am going with no on this one.... I think that's a good decision, and you'll be happpy u made it..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by perns2002 I think that's a good decision, and you'll be happpy u made it..... Something tells me I am saving myself a lot grief........Thank everybody:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bustaknut2001 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 SPYGIRL2---Where'd you get your avatar? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by bustaknut2001 SPYGIRL2---Where'd you get your avatar? I don't remember, I have had it for a long time........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I think its time treat yourself to a Mr. Softee Ice Cream Cone, girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by rdancer I think its time treat yourself to a Mr. Softee Ice Cream Cone, girl! We don't have Mr. Softee here....... Ice cream does sound sooo very good right now:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by linabina trust ur instinct... if u have any doubts at all.. dont do it... simple as that... itll probably be kind of annoying living with the mystery of what could have happened but itll be a LOT harder to live with it if something with ur friends gets fucked up and things dont work out... sometimes u need to just go for things... but other times u need to listen to ur gut instinct when its telling u not to do something. most of the time its right. Actually, since posting this and thinking about, I know it would been a weird scene if anything happened. My friends and I are goofy enough as is, so we don't need any extra drama, especially over something that isn't really worth it IMO..... Don't get me wrong, nice guy and all, but some things are better left the way they are, besides the fact, he has a g/f and keeps telling me he doesn't!!!!! Duh, if you're gonna fib, make sure I am not gonna get the truth outta someone else!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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