djmikedr Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 MEN: are attracted to by what they SEEWOMEN: are attracted to by what they HEAR(heterosexual) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prplhz Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Very true, it is a proven fact... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by apotheosis (heterosexual) Are you sure but your reasoning sounds pretty on point. Of course it's not so cut and dry, but more or less this sounds right...:::brushing up my Shakespeare knowledge as we speak::: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 oh yeah?then what the deal with this?www.latinsinmotion.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by apotheosis MEN: are attracted to by what they SEEWOMEN: are attracted to by what they HEAR(heterosexual) true, men are attracted by what they seeBUT women are not are not attracted by what they HEAR but what they FEEL. now how do you provoke feelings? it is your brain interpreting AUDIO, VISUAL and KINEASTIC (kineastic = touch) "signals". so in a way, women are attracted by what you say, but it depends on WHAT you say, what words you use and also important, HOW you say it (tonality, speed of delivery)all that, the audio (your words, the sourrounding sounds, etc) the visual (your looks, the scenery in which you are with her, etc) and the kineastic (the way you touch her) create a FEELING in her. a FEELING, a "state of mind" that you can guide her into THROUGH your words (by describing things and therefor setting pictures in her mind). for example when you tell a women about you two sitting in a boat on a small lake in alaska, and the sun is going down, and you just feel like you two are only people in the whole world. it is like the boat is a world of its own, where you two sit close to each other, maybe you´re snuggling against your loved one, looking in his face and seeing that look in his eyes that tells you better than any words that he truly cares about you and loves you... and this very moment, it may be only a second, you remember how this thing you two have there is so much better than your experiences with past lovers, you know he would never hurt you like they did in the past... instead you see, in this very moment, by the way he looks at you, and by the way he holds you in his arms, that you have found the one that is truly caring about you, that knows how to make you feel good, that knows how to love you in exactly the way you always dreamed of since you where a little naive child dreaming of prince charming. the prince that you believed in as a child but lost faith in when you grew older.... (cut)see through words i can direct your feelings, i can do that much better in my native language, and the above has like no introduction and is not really linked together, but notice how easily you can direct states through words. from "snuggling against your loved one" (feeling good, remembering good times) to "remember how you got hurt by past lovers" (negative feelings) to good feelings again (you found "the one") to your childhood and dreaming about prince charming, etc.and notice also how i only used vague language, you bet everybody has a different image of the boat, the lake, etc. also when i say "snuggling against your loved one" everybody has a different picture and feeling in his mind, except for one thing, it is good and it is romantic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by vicman oh yeah?then what the deal with this?www.latinsinmotion.com THERE HE IS :D WHADDAP vicman!bringin' any Vienna Fingers for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by tastey true, men are attracted by what they seeBUT women are not are not attracted by what they HEAR but what they FEEL. now how do you provoke feelings? it is your brain interpreting AUDIO, VISUAL and KINEASTIC (kineastic = touch) "signals". so in a way, women are attracted by what you say, but it depends on WHAT you say, what words you use and also important, HOW you say it (tonality, speed of delivery)all that, the audio (your words, the sourrounding sounds, etc) the visual (your looks, the scenery in which you are with her, etc) and the kineastic (the way you touch her) create a FEELING in her. a FEELING, a "state of mind" that you can guide her into THROUGH your words (by describing things and therefor setting pictures in her mind). for example when you tell a women about you two sitting in a boat on a small lake in alaska, and the sun is going down, and you just feel like you two are only people in the whole world. it is like the boat is a world of its own, where you two sit close to each other, maybe you´re snuggling against your loved one, looking in his face and seeing that look in his eyes that tells you better than any words that he truly cares about you and loves you... and this very moment, it may be only a second, you remember how this thing you two have there is so much better than your experiences with past lovers, you know he would never hurt you like they did in the past... instead you see, in this very moment, by the way he looks at you, and by the way he holds you in his arms, that you have found the one that is truly caring about you, that knows how to make you feel good, that knows how to love you in exactly the way you always dreamed of since you where a little naive child dreaming of prince charming. the prince that you believed in as a child but lost faith in when you grew older.... (cut)see through words i can direct your feelings, i can do that much better in my native language, and the above has like no introduction and is not really linked together, but notice how easily you can direct states through words. from "snuggling against your loved one" (feeling good, remembering good times) to "remember how you got hurt by past lovers" (negative feelings) to good feelings again (you found "the one") to your childhood and dreaming about prince charming, etc.and notice also how i only used vague language, you bet everybody has a different image of the boat, the lake, etc. also when i say "snuggling against your loved one" everybody has a different picture and feeling in his mind, except for one thing, it is good and it is romantic. . . . dude, are you ever NOT don Juan dimarco? . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by apotheosis MEN: are attracted to by what they SEEWOMEN: are attracted to by what they HEAR(heterosexual) i agree..i think this is why i succeed in the WOMENFOLK department...but then again if ur totally unappealing then u can be fuckin Socrates and no one will touch u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . . dude, are you ever NOT don Juan dimarco? . . . what´s up with the hating?if you have nothing constructive to add just do not respond Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by tastey what´s up with the hating?if you have nothing constructive to add just do not respond . . . I'm not hating . . . If I was, I'd use foul language and blatantly attack you. . . What I'm saying is this . . .are you ever just a Normal guy? Or do you always pull the swingin' bachelor bit . . . I'm just curious . . . 'cause in my experience any extreme can be damaging . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 19 Author Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i agree..i think this is why i succeed in the WOMENFOLK department...but then again if ur totally unappealing then u can be fuckin Socrates and no one will touch u I have this long time DJ friend and quite honestly he's ugly for a dude. but DAM he can pick up any woman in the club (if they come up to the booth- cause he's spinnin) one time I said (his name) dude I dont believe you how you do it?, he says watch the next girl come up to the booth... sure enough in 2 minutes a HOT girl come up, he says a few words, smiles, she comes in, hes leaning her back so shes riding up against me (I swear i felt a warm spot) got her all happy and sent her on her merry way. (i was pretty merry too actually Then when he told me that theory! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . . I'm not hating . . . If I was, I'd use foul language and blatantly attack you. . . What I'm saying is this . . .are you ever just a Normal guy? Or do you always pull the swingin' bachelor bit . . . I'm just curious . . . 'cause in my experience any extreme can be damaging . . . usually i just do what i like best at that time. right now i´m in for a whole lotta experimenting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by apotheosis I have this long time DJ friend and quite honestly he's ugly for a dude. but DAM he can pick up any woman in the club (if they come up to the booth- cause he's spinnin) one time I said (his name) dude I dont believe you how you do it?, he says watch the next girl come up to the booth... sure enough in 2 minutes a HOT girl come up, he says a few words, smiles, she comes in, hes leaning her back so shes riding up against me (I swear i felt a warm spot) got her all happy and sent her on her merry way. (i was pretty merry too actually Then when he told me that theory! duh! no wonder, he´s a friggin DJ. helllooooo? girls get turned on hardcore by DJs, dunno if it´s the passion he invests in his work or the dominance he emits while standing in his booth, or the control he has over the crowd, or if it´s that she can brag she fucked the DJ of club XYZ, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by tastey duh! no wonder, he´s a friggin DJ. helllooooo? lol, that's what i was thinking... it's like saying, my friend the millionaire is so ugly but he always gets the girls... lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 19 Author Report Share Posted June 19 tastey and tastTE, yes, but he plays KTU shit!!! and hes ugly and got a BIG beerbelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by apotheosis MEN: are attracted to by what they SEEWOMEN: are attracted to by what they HEAR(heterosexual) I used to have a shirt that said.."A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears"....or some shyt like that...was about 4 yrs ago.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
f0xyminx Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by vicman www.latinsinmotion.com hmmm, yummy, thanxi dont agree with that, i'm attracted to what i see AND hear, so if i like what i see, but he talks like an idiot, it's over, definately a combo of bothguys dont care, if they dont like what they hear, they'll just shove their dick in her mouth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by tastyt lol, that's what i was thinking... it's like saying, my friend the millionaire is so ugly but he always gets the girls... lol... :laugh: i agree with this theory for the guys, cause they NEVER listen and love to look, lol and somewhat for girls but i also agree with f0xyminx that i need the whole package--no guy that does not turn me on in the looks department is gonna quote shakespeare and love sonnets and get me excited, ya know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by apotheosis I have this long time DJ friend and quite honestly he's ugly for a dude. but DAM he can pick up any woman in the club (if they come up to the booth- cause he's spinnin) one time I said (his name) dude I dont believe you how you do it?, he says watch the next girl come up to the booth... sure enough in 2 minutes a HOT girl come up, he says a few words, smiles, she comes in, hes leaning her back so shes riding up against me (I swear i felt a warm spot) got her all happy and sent her on her merry way. (i was pretty merry too actually Then when he told me that theory! . . there's just something about being on the decks that gets em goin . . It's probably, like tastey said, a confidence thing . . . I personally can attribute to the effectiveness in it . . When I would spin at my friends places down south, I'd have chicks who'd NEVER give me the time of day normally, sweating me . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by apotheosis tastey and tastTE, yes, but he plays KTU shit!!! and hes ugly and got a BIG beerbelly *shrug*... too many girls out there have that dj fetish going... and a lot of them are probably too clueless to realize that playing KTU cheeze is a problem, lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by f0xyminx guys dont care, if they dont like what they hear, they'll just shove their dick in her mouth BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! :laugh: :rofl: OOOOOOOMG, that's the funniest thing I've read in a looong time!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wahoo Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 all theories are created to be disproven. Sooo can i test the scientific process here on some lovely? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 21 Author Report Share Posted June 21 Q: Best thing about a BJ?A: 5 mins of peace and quiet.Q: Why did God give men penises?A: To be able to shut a woman up. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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