dgmodel Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 ever reach that point in a friendship or a relationship, where something went wrong somewhere along the timeline and no matter what you do say or whatever its wrong... for example,,, what you normally would make a joke about the person takes offense, they say "what the fuck is your problem???" a comment typically made out of friendship is now "criticism,"and they respond with "why are you always picking on me?" a mere suggestion is now telling them what to do... and they respond with "why are you always telling me what to do?" i find this happening a lot with bf/gf's who are "friends" now... anyone else notice or come across this??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Don't remind me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by dgmodel ever reach that point in a friendship or a relationship, where something went wrong somewhere along the timeline and no matter what you do say or whatever its wrong... for example,,, what you normally would make a joke about the person takes offense, they say "what the fuck is your problem???" a comment typically made out of friendship is now "criticism,"and they respond with "why are you always picking on me?" a mere suggestion is now telling them what to do... and they respond with "why are you always telling me what to do?" i find this happening a lot with bf/gf's who are "friends" now... anyone else notice or come across this??? . . Then shut the fuck up and stop picking on them/telling them what to do . . . . Sorry about the harshness of the reply . . but I just had a run in a coupla weeks ago with an old friend from HS and he still treated me like he did years ago . . It pissed me off, and quite frankly had he gone any further with it I would have beaten his ass . . . . So the moral of the story is: If they tell you to shut the fuck up, DO IT! cause it's obviously bothering them . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 19 Author Report Share Posted July 19 whos picking on who??? im saying what normally wouldve been taken as a joke, they now take personally, what used to be helpin one out is now picking on them... eh whatever i guess i didnt word it right... but whatever... im sorry you had that run in with that person but thats not what i was reffering to??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by dgmodel whos picking on who??? im saying what normally wouldve been taken as a joke, they now take personally, what used to be helpin one out is now picking on them... eh whatever i guess i didnt word it right... but whatever... im sorry you had that run in with that person but thats not what i was reffering to??? . . . Well, it's still quite simple . . if they don't like it anymore, either confront them about what the change is or don't do it . .that simple . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 19 Author Report Share Posted July 19 yes~! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
envyla Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Originally posted by gmccookny Don't remind me ditto Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! it's because there are much deeper underlying issues between the two parties....trust me...i have gone trhough it.....still am...well actually.....i found it easier to just remove the person from my life....there are so many songs about this~~~>*where we used to laugh ..there's a shouting match..sharp as a thumbnail scratch..........*.......my personal fave~~~~~~>>*I'd hate walk away from you as if this never existedCause when we kissed the moment after I looked at you differentLately I gotta watch what I sayCause you take things personally nowadays You used to laugh now you get madDamn I just want my friend backWhat happened to the one I used to know The one I used to laugh and joke withThe one I used to tell all my secretsWe used to chill and be down for whatever whenever together yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 21 Author Report Share Posted July 21 EXACTLY~! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 people should stop holding grudges........ hello! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 21 Author Report Share Posted July 21 hi~! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 1.) Tell them you were joking.2.) Get them some icecream. Icecream always makes people happy.3.) If they still snap at you for the slightest infraction, offer more icecream and make them LAUGH before heading into the sarcasm and picky comments next time.4.) If they're still mad at you and can't seem to get over the pettiness of one stupid small comment, then you are authorized to tell them to clean the sand out of their fucking pussy and get their humorless tight-ass selves the fuck out of your presence.5.) Encourage them to move faster with a swift kick to the ass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 DAMNIT! now i want ice cream............ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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