marcid21 Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Are there ever any vulnerable moments in your life, when you stop and think of loves gone by....and want it back again? When you're feeling eager to be embraced by some form of comfort, and some form of safety...and you just run to the closest haven?How hard is it to fight the urge of going back to a place where you were always loved...although it may not even be the same...and although the winds of time have left their mark of change... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 It happens... but then I remind myself that it wasn't all good times, dig up a few bad memories -- the reasons I left that situation in the first place -- smile at where I'm at today, and go on my merry way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Only at my very darkest moments has it ever occurred to me... but instantly later I am reminded of all the ugliness that was involved and am snapped out of it...And ya know what... times like that only make me smile at where I'm at today, and go on my merry way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 hmmm...have been feeling that a lot lately--and i just keep making myself remember the not-so-good times and telling myself i am doing just fine on my own and this "spell" will pass and i will be even stronger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingartur Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 I don't miss her put me thru alot of pain. i'm happy now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 I used to miss him a lot..but then I remembered all the bad things..and then I smile and think of my current "him"...and go on my merry way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 i have mixed feelings on this topic... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Just replace the she with a he......Same old story is back againShe's not a lover, she's just a friendI'm sick and tired for you to blame on meNow you think it's funnyNow you wanna spend your money on girls But you forgot when you were downThat I was aroundCall my lover, hang up, call againWhat in the world is happeningListen in, but don't yell at meIsn't it ironic all you wanna do is smoke chronicBoy, you forgot when you were downWho was aroundI can't eat, I can't sleep anymoreWaiting for love to walk through the doorI wish I didn't miss you anymoreMemories don't live like people doI'm sick for ever believing youWish you'd bring back the man I knewWas good to me, oh LordEverytime you say you're comingBoy, you disappoint me, honeyHow well you forgot when you were downAnd I was aroundOne of these days, it's gonna happen to youMissing a love like I'm missing you, babe yeah yeahOne of these days, when your dreams come trueThat's the one that's gonna do it to youOh oh oh, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Did you really think that I would really take you back Let you back in my heart One more time, oh, no no Did you think I’d still care That there’d be more feeling there Did you think you could walk back In my life, oh So you found you missed the love you threw away Baby, but you found it out too late, too late (Chorus): And so you know the way it feels to cry The way that I cried when you broke my world in two And baby I learned the way to break a heart I learned from the best, I learned from you oh baby, now, I learned from you I remember cold nights Tears I thought would never dry How you shattered my world With your goodbye, your goodbye Would a sold my soul then Just to have you back again Now you are the last thing on my mind Now you say you’re sorry and you’ve Changed your ways Sorry but you changed your ways too late (Repeat Chorus) So when all you’ve got are sleepless night When those tears are clouding up your eyes Just remember it was you Who said goodbye, who said goodbye (Repeat Chorus) I learned from the best I learned from you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 I think this happens to all of us from time to time. I was with someone for almost 6 years and when things get rough I think about running back and than I remember!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 I am also goin through the same thing, you sit and think about how lonely you are, but then also think about why it didnt work out, and then you can see as to why things in the end didint work out. Moments of voulneralbility come and go, but would you want to deal with the bad also if the bad outweighed the good just so that you were not alone anymore..? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by marcid21 Are there ever any vulnerable moments in your life, when you stop and think of loves gone by....and want it back again? When you're feeling eager to be embraced by some form of comfort, and some form of safety...and you just run to the closest haven?How hard is it to fight the urge of going back to a place where you were always loved...although it may not even be the same...and although the winds of time have left their mark of change... I know that some people, most people mistake there feeling of lonliness for love or a love lost......... CHIN UP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darthvader Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 If I could only bang her one more time.......Hmmmmmmm? .....naaaaahhhhh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by darthvader If I could only bang her one more time.......Hmmmmmmm? .....naaaaahhhhh! I think darth hit the nail on the head! that about sums it up. we want them when were horny. then we jerk off and cant remember her name... untill the next time I get horny and start thinking about the tight ass or how she used to suck cock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darthvader Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by gabo I think darth hit the nail on the head! that about sums it up. we want them when were horny. then we jerk off and cant remember her name... untill the next time I get horny and start thinking about the tight ass or how she used to suck cock. yup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitokiri24 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by hoke It happens... but then I remind myself that it wasn't all good times, dig up a few bad memories -- the reasons I left that situation in the first place -- smile at where I'm at today, and go on my merry way... well how bout if there weren t any real bad times u just made a mistake an now u payin for it ever since....? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by hitokiri24 well how bout if there weren t any real bad times u just made a mistake an now u payin for it ever since....? That's hard, but at the same time you have to either try to get her/him back or move on and except your mistake............... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 fuck that.. i wont allow myself to live int he past. move on and think positive thoughts about what the future holds. they were a stepping stone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 during the initial "shock of separation" i would think that it is only natural to think "what if." but after you find that closure, its a lot easier to keep on movin' its interesting cuz my ex's tend to come back to me after a couple months -- admitting that they were stupid. and that i was the best thing that ever happend, blah blah blah, even talks about marriage but in my eyes, i have moved on and its just too late to try again. both of us have grown and changed by thisi time and i just dont think it would mesh this time. i seem to run into too many cases of bad timing! : WHY! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by nycchic24 during the initial "shock of separation" i would think that it is only natural to think "what if." but after you find that closure, its a lot easier to keep on movin' its interesting cuz my ex's tend to come back to me after a couple months -- admitting that they were stupid. and that i was the best thing that ever happend, blah blah blah, even talks about marriage but in my eyes, i have moved on and its just too late to try again. both of us have grown and changed by thisi time and i just dont think it would mesh this time. i seem to run into too many cases of bad timing! : WHY! actually i have the same thing..i always have my exs coming back to me and telling me they want another chance.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitokiri24 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by perns2002 That's hard, but at the same time you have to either try to get her/him back or move on and except your mistake............... well after what happened ain t no way in hell thats happenin so might as well look toward the present an future Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 25 Author Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by hitokiri24 well how bout if there weren t any real bad times u just made a mistake an now u payin for it ever since....? yeah...this is sort of similar to the way I feel. Nothing major went wrong...My ex and I were together for 4 yrs...and i'd say 90% of it I would never go back and change......but, my mentality is the same as NYCchic's....it's just time to move on. If we couldn't make it after 4 yrs....why should we try again? Despite the fact that right now I am slightly vulnerable and feel like running back to him....just for safety during the storm...I still feel as though my original train of thought holds true.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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