magilicuti Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 He's been my friend forever but everyone always thought he was kinda "fruity." Lately he has been changing a lot of his personality traits drastically and suddenly. I dont' wanna get into detail but what are ways of finding this kinda thing out? I am interested because its my friend and I wanna know the deal. And no answers like well ask his boyfriend or just ask him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 just ask avalodon3, hes the expert when it comes to this type of stuff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faith11878 Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Has he ever had a girlfriend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted August 28 Author Report Share Posted August 28 yes he has Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faith11878 Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 You might want to talk to her about the changes in his personallity. Don't come right out and ask if he is gay, but ask her if she thinks he is acting different. Maybe hes just fruitty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Originally posted by magilicuti He's been my friend forever but everyone always thought he was kinda "fruity." Lately he has been changing a lot of his personality traits drastically and suddenly. I dont' wanna get into detail but what are ways of finding this kinda thing out? I am interested because its my friend and I wanna know the deal. And no answers like well ask his boyfriend or just ask him. whats the difference??? if he is will you not be friends with him again? or do you want to know so you can be like "its cool man, just be yourself we dont care..." or do you want to find out so you can kick it to him??? lol j/k but i would just ask him, have a heart to heart with him... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 i duno Marko....asking someone straight up if theyre gay could alienate them. .......mags..stick thru it...the truth will eventually come out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted August 29 Author Report Share Posted August 29 i don't know... its fucking too weird for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgrlnyc Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i duno Marko....asking someone straight up if theyre gay could alienate them. .......mags..stick thru it...the truth will eventually come out i agree with you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted August 29 Author Report Share Posted August 29 i could never ask straight up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i duno Marko....asking someone straight up if theyre gay could alienate them. .......mags..stick thru it...the truth will eventually come out i didnt mean straight up in his face and ish... eh nevermind... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i duno Marko....asking someone straight up if theyre gay could alienate them. .......mags..stick thru it...the truth will eventually come out If the two you have been friends forever and are that tight, he'll trust you enough to let you know the deal:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crackorn Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If the two you have been friends forever and are that tight, he'll trust you enough to let you know the deal:) yep-exactly what I was going to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted August 29 Author Report Share Posted August 29 we'll we aren't crazy tight i guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 Originally posted by magilicuti we'll we aren't crazy tight i guess. It'll work out one or another.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted September 2 Author Report Share Posted September 2 this weekend has added to my assumptions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faith11878 Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 What happened? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daisytcam Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 I had a similar situation and i just came out and asked. Maybe he wants attention, maybe he's on something (since you don't give specifics of his "fruity" instances i can only guess). Sounds as if maybe you are uncomfortable with his behavior regardless so maybe you can approach him that way. As in "what's up with you lately?" without sounding like you are scolding. Good luck. Oh, and mine SWORE he wasn't but i told him it didn't matter, we were still buddies etc. I just wanted him to be upfront with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Don't you think your buddy was insulted? I did ask to a degree what is up but his answer was he didn't know. I don't honestly feel like giving specifics at this time. But I am not alone in this feeling. I'm not sure if that helps fuel my assumptions more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Well for one thing would you change a lot of things about yourself all of a sudden? Clothes, the people you talk to, etc? This is odd behavior no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daisytcam Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 He may have been insulted but he understood why i was asking. (different behavior around me when i did see him etc.) I mean we don't hang out 24/7 and since he agreed he had "changed" batting for the other team wasn't the reason.Ok, so you've said your friend has changed the people he hangs with, his style etc. Maybe it's a phase? Like, he is just trying something new out (be it just on the exterior or he really wants to know what the other side is like?) He isn't ready to give specifics so don't push. Just let him know you are there for him when he is ready to talk. He obviously knows which way you sway so I don't think you'll have to worry about him coming on to you if he does admit to being gay (and i think you may be a bit concerned that this may happen). If his actions make you uncomfortable then tell him that. Like i said before, good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Its not just exterior, very odd behavior. very odd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 IM me at "IamVitas" on AIM or AOL. for specifics. I don't really wanna talk about them publicly. yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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