siceone Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 principles or the love of another person.... What would you do if someone cheated on you and you weren't married and had no kids.. would you let them go or would you stay together??personally I would let them go... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 i ve been cheated on and took them back but now................fuck that if i get cheated on i'll let his sorry ass go:D you learn by your mistakes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 I wouldnt take them back because they'd lose my trust....And to me, trust is the most important part of a relationship...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 i think it is best to let someone go if they cheat on you. its easier said than done but once a cheater always a cheater.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Originally posted by siceone principles or the love of another person.... What would you do if someone cheated on you and you weren't married and had no kids.. would you let them go or would you stay together??personally I would let them go... so if a person has kids should they stay?thats possibly the worst thing to do and i hate when someone uses that as an escuse:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 . . . get rid of em . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Either way I'd let them go.....there's no TRUST in the relationship after something like that happens & if you take the person back you are just letting them make an asshole out of you...as far as a kid being in the picture....the kid will probably be more fucked up living with 2 parents in an unhealthy relationship then being part of a divorced family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted August 28 Author Report Share Posted August 28 Originally posted by sweetie029 Either way I'd let them go.....there's no TRUST in the relationship after something like that happens & if you take the person back you are just letting them make an asshole out of you...as far as a kid being in the picture....the kid will probably be more fucked up living with 2 parents in an unhealthy relationship then being part of a divorced family Actually there have been may studies done and have shown that even a child with a mother and father there for them and together even if the two people aren't romantically involved turn out better than children than who don't.,.. but you know those are studies and doctors don't know shit so fuck em.... But I think if you make a child with another person you should stay to provide the best emotional support.. its almost business like If you're not responsible enough to sacrafice you're selfish wants for a child you made then you shouldn't be having children in the first place... Besides I said children should be left out of your decision... Its funny how conditioned some people are to rebel and not answer questions straight up... I said you don't have kids and imediately two people include children... not Flaming just something to think about... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrishaolin Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Originally posted by reenichole i ve been cheated on and took them back but now................fuck that if i get cheated on i'll let his sorry ass go:D you learn by your mistakes hell yeah i agree with you 100%.. two familiar sayins come to mind.. once a cheater, always a cheater.. and fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 Adios!!! I have enough things to worry about than to waste energy on a cheater. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 what do doctors know have they studyied every single child that has had parents spilt up or is it some schmuck crying in his psy.office crying his life is fucked up b/c mommy and daddy arent together anyway the reason why i incluced the child scenerio b/c i have a child and to stay in a relationship b/c its better for the child yeah right when someone is not happy they cant help but taking there misery on someone else not knowingly but you can so is it good for me to sit and worry night after night wondering who her father was fucking .miserable and depressed and then sitting there smiling in my childs face:laugh: acting as if everything is okay pretty soon that act gets old and tired and how will my daughter ever respect me when i have her father disrespecting me and thats how she will grow up thinking its okay for someone to treat you like shit b/c of love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 fucking word. thats all there is too it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 This is a cake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 are you saying that you cant have your cake and eat it too?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted August 29 Author Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by reenichole what do doctors know have they studyied every single child that has had parents spilt up or is it some schmuck crying in his psy.office crying his life is fucked up b/c mommy and daddy arent together anyway the reason why i incluced the child scenerio b/c i have a child and to stay in a relationship b/c its better for the child yeah right when someone is not happy they cant help but taking there misery on someone else not knowingly but you can so is it good for me to sit and worry night after night wondering who her father was fucking .miserable and depressed and then sitting there smiling in my childs face:laugh: acting as if everything is okay pretty soon that act gets old and tired and how will my daughter ever respect me when i have her father disrespecting me and thats how she will grow up thinking its okay for someone to treat you like shit b/c of love Thats a pretty far fetched scenario and people don't just start disrepecting you out of the blue if you have a kid with someone who is disrepecting you then thats your fucking fault... now you have a responsibility..... what happens to that you're just gonna leave? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 its not far fetched at all i wasnt talking about people i was saying my child wouldnt grow up without respect for me maybe when you have a child you'll understand the image you project has an effect on your child(kinda of topic)but for instance when a girl grows up in a abusive home she will either marry an abusive man or become abusive or simply go in the total opposite of her family and be fine.and this leaving thing i did leave him should i get cheat on over and over again to keep the family together obviously he wasnt happy enough to stay he didnt think about the family when he cheated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 I wonder how many people say they'd ditch the s/o, but end up forgiving him/her when the situation actually arises, because they're madly in love.Hearts do fuck us over sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by hoke I wonder how many people say they'd ditch the s/o, but end up forgiving him/her when the situation actually arises, because they're madly in love.Hearts do fuck us over sometimes. so true and thats what im saying but some ppl eventually wake and leave up alot of ppl are saying yeah i'll leave as soon as find out but they dont it depends on the situation for ppl i.e kids money, low self esteem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted August 29 Report Share Posted August 29 Originally posted by jroo are you saying that you cant have your cake and eat it too?? no i just posted a picture of cake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted August 29 Author Report Share Posted August 29 For fucks sake who said anything about abusive relationships ? why complicate a simple question? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 I belive in the whole once a cheater always a cheater.. i was cheated on once and thats not a feeling i enjyed.. i will never put myelf in that situation again..he'd be gone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 Originally posted by siceone For fucks sake who said anything about abusive relationships ? why complicate a simple question? LOL carl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 nothing on CP is ever easy... we all know that by now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 i cant take back someone who cheat on me sorry !!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted August 30 Report Share Posted August 30 From what I understand a person that cheats is usually not happy in a relationship, so that person has to go looking for it elsewhere's. If that person is not happy with me and decides to cheat then I don't want to be with that person. Pretty simple! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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