xxsweetie Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 I met this guy and we connected and hit it off pretty well...We met on Saturday and already hung out 2x since then, and spoken on the phone daily. Now last night, we started fooling around a little bit...and he kind of asks me to go down on him (immature point #1-shouldnt have to ask.) Then I guess I did another immature thing and told him that it was a "give and take";) To which he replies that "he can't do that":rolleyes: I asked why, he said that he's attempted to do it 2x before and both experiences were really bad and thats why he cant. After all that, he still didn't understand why I couldn't do it anyway:eek: I dont want to be petty or immature about this, its just that I don't think its fair for one person to be enjoying themselves fully and not the other...most importantly... I have yet to have an orgasm without it. What to do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Man stop hangin arfound with these fuckin cheese balls and start messing with mature men who know what the fuck is up and arent gonna play u for fool cause u definitely don't seem like one.The boy was simply stupid...if its give and take...then muthafucka take it then give or vice versa..u work that shit out on yer own time...furthermore...fuckin...maybe he didn't wanna go down on you cause i smell like a can of 1986 bumble tuna that just got awoken from its coma. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted September 11 Author Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by quoth The boy was simply stupid...if its give and take...then muthafucka take it then give or vice versa..u work that shit out on yer own time...furthermore...fuckin...maybe he didn't wanna go down on you cause i smell like a can of 1986 bumble tuna that just got awoken from its coma. def. not the case Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by quoth furthermore...fuckin...maybe he didn't wanna go down on you cause i smell like a can of 1986 bumble tuna that just got awoken from its coma. LMAO , the kind in spring water or oil? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by xxsweetie def. not the case Aw did Quothy get under yer skin? I'm Sorry.no im notyes i am UGHHHHHH fuckin gemini's and their goddamn personalities.exscuse us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvetgoldmire Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 1) Teach him how to do it right. They were probably bad because he didn't know what he was doing due to his inexperience.or2) Move on. I can't imagine getting overly attached to someone after just hanging out with them 2 times, and if you can't have an orgasm without that, then there are going to be some serious issues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted September 11 Author Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by velvetgoldmire 1) Teach him how to do it right. They were probably bad because he didn't know what he was doing due to his inexperience.or2) Move on. I can't imagine getting overly attached to someone after just hanging out with them 2 times, and if you can't have an orgasm without that, then there are going to be some serious issues. No attachment as of yet, I just mean that we initially clicked...but you're right no orgasm=serious problem:eek: Im not planning to persuade anybody into doing anything like that, b/c I have never come across problems of this sort before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 thats really fucken stupid. just the fact that he asked you if you would go down on him is stupid... you should do things because you want to not because hes begging like a little bitch. my ex used to ask and now i would probably run the other way if someone asked me to, especially if they didnt have any skills. he should go down on you and let you tell him what you like. also, i have found the best way to have easy orgasms is to have a guy play with your clit while youre fucking. so dont say you cant have one with out getting eaten out. dont go down on him unless he goes down on you he should be begging to go down on you. seems like guys always wanna do that... whats wrong with this kid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted September 11 Author Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by somebitch dont go down on him unless he goes down on you he should be begging to go down on you. seems like guys always wanna do that... whats wrong with this kid I know... its fucken weird, Ive had people beg me to let them do it...and this kid has some issues. I may sound as stupid as him...but there is no way im going down on him unless he goes down on me...its a matter of principleIts just a shame b/c otherwise, we've had fun together:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by xxsweetie I know... its fucken weird, Ive had people beg me to let them do it...and this kid has some issues. I may sound as stupid as him...but there is no way im going down on him unless he goes down on me...its a matter of principleIts just a shame b/c otherwise, we've had fun together:blank: if you've really clicked that well and have had that much fun together, maybe you can be patient and give him some time...see if he'll come around...he might be saying that he has had bad experiences, but maybe if he gets comfortable w/ you, he'll change his mind. Don't wait around forever, but it seems like you really like hanging out w/ him...seems a shame to give that up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by velvetgoldmire 1) Teach him how to do it right. They were probably bad because he didn't know what he was doing due to his inexperience.or2) Move on. I can't imagine getting overly attached to someone after just hanging out with them 2 times, and if you can't have an orgasm without that, then there are going to be some serious issues. Ditto. Personally I couldn't stay with someone who couldn't get over this hang-up... hopefully yours will be the pussy that shows him what's so great about the wonderful world of cunnilingus... lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted September 11 Author Report Share Posted September 11 YOu guys are right...I wouldn't want to lose a cool person over this and maybe he'll get over it??? On the other hand, I wouldn't want to wait around forever, and the more you wait, the bigger the chance of becoming attached. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by xxsweetie YOu guys are right...I wouldn't want to lose a cool person over this and maybe he'll get over it??? On the other hand, I wouldn't want to wait around forever, and the more you wait, the bigger the chance of becoming attached. .. Listen ,people have bad expiriences, its your duty to help him get over this. If having a guy going down on you and pleasing you for hours is important to you then its best that you educate him.If its smells like fish and tastes like chicken keep on lickin.... :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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