fierydesire Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Have you ever had one and you know the person is interested to some degree but not certain? I have one for someone I know but I don't know how to approach it. I'm usually not shy but for some reason I feel a bit intimidated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 it's okay z... i have a crush on you, too! *slides arm around your waist* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjp22 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Since when are you shy about anything? Just tell him what's up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Crushes are cool! I miss the Jittery feelings and the wave of awe that a crush can bring... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by fierydesire I'm usually not shy but for some reason I feel a bit intimidated You feeling ok Z? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 oh man girl you are in my head, I put up a similar post titled crushes on another board just a couple months ago...anyway, you boys don't understand that while girls like z and I are typically go-getters () or at least make it known that we are open to someone getting us....well, at least for me, when I REALLY like someone I tend to get a bit shy myself (don't faint, larry).I know what you speak of and I say just go with the flow. I'm sure they are interested as well, but in these cases you just have to let things happen, nature will take its course b/c the foundation has already been established.Love u! Sorry I left so early last night I was exhaaaausted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 i know what you mean..i have a crush on this swedish guy that works in the next office from where i am...we also have class together three times a week..and i just don't get guys sometimes...he definitely makes it obvious he finds me attractive (making sly comments, always finding an excuse to walk/talk/touch me... ), but it's easy to misread interest for just plain friendliness, and you never know...just go with the flow, don't pressure yourself to think anything, have fun, and see what happens... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by fierydesire Have you ever had one and you know the person is interested to some degree but not certain? I have one for someone I know but I don't know how to approach it. I'm usually not shy but for some reason I feel a bit intimidated Just ask him to go down for a drink...He'll get the picture..By the way, is that your pic as an avator...If so, your breast look good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by sassa i know what you mean..i have a crush on this swedish guy that works in the next office from where i am...we also have class together three times a week..and i just don't get guys sometimes...he definitely makes it obvious he finds me attractive (making sly comments, always finding an excuse to walk/talk/touch me... ), but it's easy to misread interest for just plain friendliness, and you never know...just go with the flow, don't pressure yourself to think anything, have fun, and see what happens... yeah I know what you mean its hard cause sometimes it is misread ::sigh:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by nitro449 Just ask him to go down for a drink...He'll get the picture..By the way, is that your pic as an avator...If so, your breast look good! jes that is me in my avatar:D and thanx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 You can practice on me!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Who knows Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinestro Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 Or it could be something offically called Male Pattern Blindness or MPB for short. That's when a male does not read the signal a woman gives off that she is interested even though it might be brutally obvious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 Yes, i know this phenomenon quite well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 i use to have crushes when i was yonger but i get to a point in my life where i got tired to be in that position when u like a guy and he dont even look at u so now i change the rolls and bealive me it works better heheh..when ever i like a guy i go for it and if he responds to me "well welcome to my arms darling" but if he dosnt i just move and go for another one heheh i dont lose my time for anybodie lets say i feel like i got the power in my hands not like before when i was unexperince little girly hihihi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinestro Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 Originally posted by scaredgirl i use to have crushes when i was yonger but i get to a point in my life where i got tired to be in that position when u like a guy and he dont even look at u so now i change the rolls and bealive me it works better heheh..when ever i like a guy i go for it and if he responds to me "well welcome to my arms darling" but if he dosnt i just move and go for another one heheh i dont lose my time for anybodie lets say i feel like i got the power in my hands not like before when i was unexperince little girly hihihi I think most guys would like more women to do this. It's also quite thrilling for the guy and such a turn on! (well at least for me anyway ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted September 21 Author Report Share Posted September 21 Originally posted by scaredgirl i use to have crushes when i was yonger but i get to a point in my life where i got tired to be in that position when u like a guy and he dont even look at u so now i change the rolls and bealive me it works better heheh..when ever i like a guy i go for it and if he responds to me "well welcome to my arms darling" but if he dosnt i just move and go for another one heheh i dont lose my time for anybodie lets say i feel like i got the power in my hands not like before when i was unexperince little girly hihihi I agree with the last paragraph, but I think you can have crushes at any age and I think that they are fun . . . as long as they arent obessive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jesx81 Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 originally posted by sinestro I think most guys would like more women to do this. It's also quite thrilling for the guy and such a turn on! (well at least for me anyway.Hells yeah...I love a woman who does the approaching when shes interested at some1. Its always the guys that gotta do the approaching...life would be so much easier for us guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 well i like guys who likes women hit on them and yes is such a turn ON to fell u guys getting all nervous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 ~~whenever i have a crush on someone its really weird.....i always end up with that person but a whileeeeeee later.....when i dont have a crush on them anymore.........its a curse i tell u!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinestro Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 Originally posted by scaredgirl well i like guys who likes women hit on them and yes is such a turn ON to fell u guys getting all nervous It's because we are not in that situation very often. It's like "Oh shit, I'm getting hit on by an attractive woman," while giving off that startled look. Takes a second or two to regain our senses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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