sassa Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 i had posted over the summer here a problem i had: i was seeing a guy and he had to go overseas, and i asked the question of whether i should tell him my real feelings or not...fast forward three months, i don't hear anything from him until today...he's in europe, MARRIED, cheating on his new wife with some chick, AND to top it off...he still wants to see me on the side!everything i thought was true...my emotions and thoughts have all been squashed today. i didn't dwell on him coming back and being with me, but he was still in the far corner of my mind, especially after we had such an emotional goodbye...and now i feel like i was screwed over and cared for no reason...i hate fucking men. may they all die and burn forever...too bad i can't feel any attraction for women, otherwise i'd be dyking it.are there really no trustworthy men left out there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 If your asking if you should see him on the side then I'd say no.....Karma will come around and bite you on the ass on of these days.......And I do think there are some trustworthy guys still out there..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 7 Author Report Share Posted October 7 i'm not saying i want to see him...i'm just confused....when someone tells u they care for you and want you in their life for the near and far future...and they hint at the possibility that they are falling for you, and despite yourself...you feel yourself slowly starting to feel the same way..having all this suddenly stop and become something that will never be...i'm just angry because it was all based on a lie. and i bought into it...and i don't usually trust anyone, ever.if there are trustworthy guys, i bet they're either taken, married, gay, or dead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 What he was feeling at the time he was here might have been genuine....But he did leave and that does change alot of things.....Most people want something to satisfy them at the moment......And obviously he did find something satisfying for that moment.....But now he's fucking up cause he's cheating on his wife.....BTW...You shouldnt regret feeling the way you did....The way I go about life is that I give my all to everyone....Even if I do get hurt in the end I atleast wont have any regret because I might not have given enough..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by sassa i'm not saying i want to see him...i'm just confused....when someone tells u they care for you and want you in their life for the near and far future...and they hint at the possibility that they are falling for you, and despite yourself...you feel yourself slowly starting to feel the same way..having all this suddenly stop and become something that will never be...i'm just angry because it was all based on a lie. and i bought into it...and i don't usually trust anyone, ever.if there are trustworthy guys, i bet they're either taken, married, gay, or dead. well , in my opinion we really do know if someone IS the right one or not..we sometimes get so whooped that we either lie to ourselves that that person is the right one or we just simply block it out & dont even bother to analyze it .. for example , i was married to a woman i KNEW wasnt the right one but i was soooooooo in love & so whooped that i figured i had enough love to make it work for the both of us.. well , it didnt work ..... sometimes i think we should suffer a little bit in the begining , before letting it get too serious , than letting something that deep down inside you know aint meant to be keep going.. jmo.... hope this helps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 7 Author Report Share Posted October 7 if you are right, koky, then i must not have this "sixth sense" you're talking about....maybe it's my bad luck, i meet a lot of people, but never have yet met someone i could see myself being with for more than a few months.anyways, guess i just needed to vent, thanks for the comments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
embodiedhate Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 I'm not even going to say it, nah I aint that nice: I told you so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0nythelover Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 remember i said that the one peice of advice i give people is not to trust people? well this is why...men are dogs, dogs eat cats, hot dogs are not pork...looks are always decieving... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by embodiedhate I'm not even going to say it, nah I aint that nice: I told you so But you ARE forgetting that she is just "standard fucking issue" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by sassa are there really no trustworthy men left out there... are there any trustworthy women? who knows... i hope so though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by sassa i hate fucking men. may they all die and burn forever...too bad i can't feel any attraction for women, otherwise i'd be dyking it.are there really no trustworthy men left out there... Yes, me and there ARE good guys out there. I think this all goes back to the girl being attracted to the "challenge-full" undercover-jerk guy that they want to change.I never cheated and never intend to. Im afraid you just haven't been lucky with the men, sass. Please don't persecute us all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by sassa i'm not saying i want to see him...i'm just confused....when someone tells u they care for you and want you in their life for the near and far future...and they hint at the possibility that they are falling for you, and despite yourself...you feel yourself slowly starting to feel the same way..having all this suddenly stop and become something that will never be...You see, it's his words vs. his actions. I have heard from a few girls who got involved with jerk guys, and ALL the guys say one thing and do another. This guy obviously failed the test, Sass. He may say all these loving, caring things, but to him, they don't carry any weight in the real world.Please don't use this dickhead as an example for the male race. We're really not that bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Awwwww................boo fawkin hooo :cry: maybe it's karma biting you in the ass for all the negativity you project towards others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 7 Author Report Share Posted October 7 gracias, people...i know most of you don't give a shit..and today is a new day, so i don't either. back to work... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 ....is there no end to your negativity and hypocrisy?... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
embodiedhate Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by phatman ....is there no end to your negativity and hypocrisy?... A hundred bucks says he fucks her the next time he comes into town. How bout it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by embodiedhate A hundred bucks says he fucks her the next time he comes into town. How bout it? ...i dont have the c-note to lose...a more interesting bet is who's post she might respond to first and with what words...i got $50 says one will include an eye-roll... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by embodiedhate A hundred bucks says he fucks her the next time he comes into town. How bout it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by sassa i had posted over the summer here a problem i had: i was seeing a guy and he had to go overseas, and i asked the question of whether i should tell him my real feelings or not...fast forward three months, i don't hear anything from him until today...he's in europe, MARRIED, cheating on his new wife with some chick, AND to top it off...he still wants to see me on the side!everything i thought was true...my emotions and thoughts have all been squashed today. i didn't dwell on him coming back and being with me, but he was still in the far corner of my mind, especially after we had such an emotional goodbye...and now i feel like i was screwed over and cared for no reason...i hate fucking men. may they all die and burn forever...too bad i can't feel any attraction for women, otherwise i'd be dyking it.are there really no trustworthy men left out there... Your right men suck... Wait a click.... Your situation just sucks. Sorry to hear that, but look @ the bright side of this picture, you didnt give him your heart and he didnt cheat on you... The time you spent apart you saw what kind of a little devil this guy was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by gmccookny Please don't persecute us all i agree... just because one guys an asshole doesn't mean they all are... just the same way that not all girls are skanky sluts because the girl that cheated on you last week was... how about we just say some people are just dicks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by djmoonshine how about we just say some people are just clits. ...werks fer me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Originally posted by phatman ...werks fer me... : Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by phatman ....is there no end to your negativity and hypocrisy?... where did this come from? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by embodiedhate A hundred bucks says he fucks her the next time he comes into town. How bout it? you will lose your bet, i promise you...not everyone's a skanky, std-ridden, crack ho' like your mother is... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by phatman ...i dont have the c-note to lose...a more interesting bet is who's post she might respond to first and with what words...i got $50 says one will include an eye-roll... aren't we just a ray of sunshine today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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