starcapone Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 until you have sex...days, weeks, months...I say 3 months.. keep them yearning! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Wait until it feels right- simple as that. There's no use in laying down rules, because once you do it all becomes a game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 I would say anywhere between 30 minutes and 2 hours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 i agree with tasty... it is pointless to make them wait 3 months, if that is what they are waiting for they will be gone quickly after that. so all the waiting can be a waste. i usually dont give it up too quickly though, not because i am playing games or making people wait, just because i am not the type to make a move and i dont make other people feel too comfortable about making a move on me unless i know it is going to lead somewhere. so i like to get to know someone so i can make that determination.i dunno, i dont often meet men i cant keep my hands off, that is the real issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 I don't play games - 3 months seems right to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by starcapone I don't play games - 3 months seems right to me. How can one time period always be right?? thats absurd...with some people you feel closer faster, and with others it takes longer... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 Everyone is different.. some people jump right into it- some people wait. Is that alright with you? damn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by somebitch i agree with tasty... it is pointless to make them wait 3 months, if that is what they are waiting for they will be gone quickly after that. so all the waiting can be a waste. i usually dont give it up too quickly though, not because i am playing games or making people wait, just because i am not the type to make a move and i dont make other people feel too comfortable about making a move on me unless i know it is going to lead somewhere. so i like to get to know someone so i can make that determination.i dunno, i dont often meet men i cant keep my hands off, that is the real issue. I agree............. good answer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by somebitch i agree with tasty... it is pointless to make them wait 3 months, if that is what they are waiting for they will be gone quickly after that. so all the waiting can be a waste. i usually dont give it up too quickly though, not because i am playing games or making people wait, just because i am not the type to make a move and i dont make other people feel too comfortable about making a move on me unless i know it is going to lead somewhere. so i like to get to know someone so i can make that determination.i dunno, i dont often meet men i cant keep my hands off, that is the real issue. I agree............. good answer it also depends though, My BF slept with her NOW husband the 3rd time they hung out. THey are happily married and meant for each other..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LogiKandReasoN Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by perns2002 I agree............. good answer it also depends though, My BF slept with her NOW husband the 3rd time they hung out. THey are happily married and meant for each other..... huh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 exacctly what I wrote...............My Best friend did not wait at all, she slept with her man right away she knew him 3 days...... now they are married......... and truly meant for each other......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrgqdieselny Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by tastyt Wait until it feels right- simple as that. There's no use in laying down rules, because once you do it all becomes a game. Thank uFkin idiots with …these rules, all games….any guy who waits that long…man…wierd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LogiKandReasoN Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Originally posted by perns2002 exacctly what I wrote...............My Best friend did not wait at all, she slept with her man right away she knew him 3 days...... now they are married......... and truly meant for each other......... oooooh, i get it now, I thought when you said 'BF' you were referring to your boyfriend. coo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 I hate to be graphic but when do you know you need to take a tinkle or do a number 2? You feel it..It's natural. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 I say just do it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 There's no time limit on when it's right or wrong...it all depends on the couple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 I dont think there is any specific time limit on when you should have sex in a relationship. Thats something that is decided within yourself. I say when you feel most comfortable in sharing something like that with them;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 I'm a firm believer of the 90 day return / exchange policy....Sad to say but most people are not even worth sleeping with in the first 90 days (because thay are not their true self)... StarC unless you can't resist... stick to your guns. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 tasty is right on the $$--it is difft for everyone... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted October 10 Author Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by b-side I'm a firm believer of the 90 day return / exchange policy....Sad to say but most people are not even worth sleeping with in the first 90 days (because thay are not their true self)... StarC unless you can't resist... stick to your guns. I'm glad we're on the same level. I guess I have too much respect for myself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by tastyt Wait until it feels right- simple as that. There's no use in laying down rules, because once you do it all becomes a game. Some how you just know....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 when ever i feel like im ready Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 I think for a guy it's different. for ex. If I like a girl I wont rush into the sex but if I know I wont have any emotions towards her then I will want to fuck as quick as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by gabo I think for a guy it's different. for ex. If I like a girl I wont rush into the sex but if I know I wont have any emotions towards her then I will want to fuck as quick as possible. so true! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipeoci Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 if you rush into it (let's say within the first few dates), all the mystery will have been revealed... no mystery means no challenge - no challenge means no fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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